Should a friend who doesn't pay back the money urge him to pay it back?

My opinion is that we should hurry. Because you lent him money when he was a friend, and because he didn't pay it back for a long time, he broke his word when he borrowed money, so he no longer regards you as a friend. Besides, no matter who borrowed it, honesty is the most basic criterion. This money needs to be urged. If there is an agreed repayment period, try not to rush it within the time limit. If it exceeds the repayment period, it can be reminded in time; If you don't take the initiative to pay back the money after borrowing it for a long time, you must hurry.

For example, a friend of mine borrowed 1 0,000 yuan from another friend, and it is said that he will pay it back two months later. Later, the goods owed hundreds of thousands because of gambling. It's almost three years now, and half of it has not been returned. The first half was returned after several urging. When that friend knew the situation, he simply stopped urging.

My friends around me know that my aim is that when you borrow money from me, you are embarrassed to ask, which shows that you think your relationship with me is OK. Since the relationship is ok, you didn't pay me back the money I used, and I didn't mean to ask for it! If I ask for the bill, and you are sad and look particularly annoyed, then you can give me my money back and it's over! I don't expect you to accept my kindness when I borrow money, but I don't want to lend money to my enemies because I lend money to others.

The relationship between friends needs to be based on trust, especially borrowing money. I believe you will lend you money, so you must try to live up to my trust. If the borrower defaults first, it is equivalent to breaking the foundation of this trust, and the trust will be gone. Of course, the lender wants to collect debts. Or to put it another way, if there are no special circumstances and the understanding of the lender is not obtained, it can be concluded that this behavior no longer regards the lender as a friend. In that case, why not rush it? Of course, if the other party is willing to take the initiative to repay, but it is really difficult, and take the initiative to explain to you or make a repayment plan, don't rush it if you have the ability.