How to scold my predecessor and delete my ex-DISS?

Speaking of diss's predecessor, many people may laugh: pretend that he can listen to me, and I will be very happy. If you can dissuade him, I will lose! But I still want to make it clear that the word "diss" here is enclosed in double quotation marks. Criticizing your ex doesn't really need you to diss him. Instead, guide his predecessor to see your value and strive for the initiative for you in some clever ways.

1. Everyone is different. Whether you can diss must be decided according to your personal situation;

2.2. The degree and mode of DISS are also determined by individuals and cannot be completely copied;

3. Before and after DISS, you must have certain value as an aid and support, otherwise your DISS will really become a curse and will only accelerate the recovery from failure.

Ok, after the announcement, we will send dry goods next.

1. praise openly and belittle secretly, and criticism becomes encouragement.

When saving money, many girls will express their feelings and feel that it is not easy for them. Bad for their boyfriends, but they don't mind. I didn't expect to be broken up now, so I have been angrily criticizing my predecessor for not knowing how to cherish myself.

In fact, the quality of feelings is mutual, even relative, which is the same as how much you love. If you love more, it doesn't mean you should ask for more. Instead, you should reflect: why do I love much, but the other person is ungrateful? Therefore, when we communicate with our predecessors, we should mix an expression. For example, your predecessor was a straight man with low emotional intelligence, and he didn't know how to love you and your mind, which led to you not getting along well.

And your sense of security is getting lower and lower, so when you criticize each other, you will say, "Why is your emotional intelligence so low? Don't you love it? " Look at this sentence, the typical communication mode that destroys the relationship is "I am good, you are not good": because you have low emotional intelligence and can't talk, you don't love me, so you destroy our relationship.

Then who is willing to take such responsibility? Even if the other person thinks it's his own problem, he is not convinced psychologically: I have low emotional intelligence, and you? Are you on drugs? I think you are also a woman ... Next, apart from endless accusations and abuse, there is nothing wrong with them.

What about another expression? Look at this: "I haven't learned to be honest with straight men who love technology." Does that sound comfortable? When something goes wrong, you are not criticizing each other, but criticizing yourself. At the same time, you affirm the advantages of the other person: you are straight, but you are very caring and have no subjective malice. In fact, you are not good at expression, but you are still good. Does the other party feel much better like this, and naturally there is not much confrontation and hostility towards you?

He even thinks, yeah, why did I have no problem at first, but I didn't express myself well, how can I improve it? She's not that bad. Am I asking too much?

A good way to express yourself is not to criticize the other person, but to "diss" him by publicly praising and secretly belittling him. Of course, you should also make self-criticism.

2. Hit your predecessor seven inches and let him explode in one sentence.

I have a friend who likes her ex very much, but her ex has always regarded her as a trophy. She always creates opportunities to get in touch with her ex, and even saves her ex physically. Embarrassed by me, she went to chat with her ex. As a result, when she was chatting, her ex began to ridicule her. The original words are unclear, and the general idea is "Do you still want to sleep with me?"

At this time, she sent me a conversation and asked me what to do. I answered him directly: "Is it your technology?" My friend dared not reply, but I insisted that she reply to the past:

First, don't be afraid to have me as a little expert; Second, you are already changing, not the old you. He recently saw your circle of friends and felt the changes in your chat with you. You have confidence; Third, why do you think that active chatting means sleeping with him? How disrespectful

As a result, my ex was about to explode, and I kept asking her if her skills were poor or not strong enough ... and even asked her to call again to get back face! Of course, after the old driver instructed me to chat and reply many times, the problem was solved. After this chat, the relationship between the two has been much smoother, and her predecessor no longer regards her as a booty call, and their relationship is slowly recovering.

In fact, I share this case because I am worried, because there are not many such girls in reality. If you want to reverse this relationship, don't use it easily, because the risk is too high and you haven't established your own value yet. If you say that, you may be hacked at once.

Remember.

Do you really know how to retrieve letters?

Although many people know the value of the tracing letter and try to write it, they don't know that there is a mystery in it. A kind word can make your predecessor go to heaven. If you don't know, you will hate your predecessor even more! For example, when it comes to the reasons why two people break up, we should sort out and express them from an objective and neutral perspective, and we should not be biased towards one side.

For example, I constantly belittle myself and feel that I have screwed up this relationship, but I will objectively analyze my own problems and euphemistically "diss ex": recalling our time together, I have done many irrational things. Like self,

..... When you finish this sentence, don't just apologize and beg, but sum up a sentence from an equal angle: We don't love each other, we just don't know how to love, sorry, we don't love each other in the way they like.

Having said that, you corrected your position. If you want to continue to improve your status, you can say: I complained about you before, so heartless, but now I really want to say something empty: thank you very much. If it weren't for you, I might not know how to love someone. You let me know what a person should look like in love. ?

A few words express your feelings and show your cognition. I also gently remind each other: in fact, you and I didn't know how to love before, I didn't know how to love you, and you didn't know how to love me. We all need to learn and change.

Well, I can't say any more. Finally, remind that the predecessor of "diss" is risky, so be careful!