The epidemic has widened the distance between people.

Gathering is fire, which can cooperate with each other, and scattering is full of stars, which can be great. This is the epitome of China's beautiful spark world, which is a grasp of the cohesion of the epidemic. Distance is the premise of connection, and each star should have its own light. The outbreak of COVID-19 suddenly made everyone responsible for ensuring the distance between people. Home isolation, the closure of entertainment venues, the online handling of government affairs, the postponement of the start of school, and the "one-meter line" of social security are all efforts made by people to ensure distance. "A grain of sand of the times falls on a person's head and becomes a mountain." Some behaviors that are used to at ordinary times seem to be difficult to complete after being constrained. This is only the distance between life and death, and what is even more touching is the distance between life and death. "doctor! Where do you want to go? " "Fight the epidemic and save the whole life!" "If you never come back?" "I will never come back!" This is a dialogue between life and death and a choice between life and death. It is this great determination and distance that brings us the distance of contact. Let the virus be isolated, but the love between people is brought closer. Contact is the guarantee of distance, and the gathered flame illuminates the beautiful world. "I will wait for the disaster to cross the sea to hug the person I love." This is the voice of Wang Jiyang, a cadre. During the epidemic, he and many volunteers helped the community to prevent and treat diseases, and sent vegetables to buy medicine, which eased the urgent need. "After that, as long as you are safe, even if you can't see it, it's okay." This is the persistence of countless couriers, countless drivers and countless teachers who teach online day and night. "Countless distant places, countless people related to me." It is this persistence that makes the news reported by reporters close the distance between people and the outside world ... The solid connection makes the distance no longer far away, ensures the distance and makes people full of warmth. Distance and contact watch each other and make a beautiful spark world. It is the distance that makes the connection meaningful, and it is the connection that makes the distance more lasting. Have you ever thought that the dim light in the dark night gathers into stars, warming one anxious heart after another; Have you ever seen the heavy footsteps stepping into the sunset, leaving the backbone of China? Have you ever heard of the minute hand ticking in the clock, one figure after another fighting for life with death? We stood so close that we could hear each other's breathing; We stand so far that we can never cross our toes; We cheered each other up, watched each other and said, "I'll wait for you later." We * * * stick to it, for a better world, for spring, the geese return! The gathered kindling and the passing stars will surely collide with powerful flames and warm this sparking world! The epidemic has widened the distance between people. The epidemic will occur for half a year. During this period, many people's attitudes towards life and work can be exposed, and the distance between people can be narrowed. During the epidemic, most people were isolated at home. So how do they manage their life, work and study at home 24 hours a day? Some people spend all their time in bed except eating; Some people do housework in a planned way, exercise, take care of the elderly and children, learn new knowledge, new crafts, learn new ways of making a living and so on. The split attitude towards life and work at home during the epidemic directly widened the distance between people. People who can manage themselves at home for a long time and manage their homes well will not be worse than others in the future, but will make greater progress than others; People who can't manage themselves and their families well will certainly not make much progress. It has been three years since the epidemic statistics. Three years after the epidemic, people's online communication has reached an extreme, and will this extreme be reversed? Alibaba laid off employees, and Weiya stepped down from the altar; Everyone didn't send a circle of friends ... short videos rotten streets ... Tik Tok broadcasters are faster than the audience; The share price of Internet platform fell by 2/3 this year; Is the Internet traffic dividend that everyone has been chasing for nearly 20 years over? Once upon a time, the QQ group, which once had unlimited scenery, has become a gathering place for scammers. Wechat only accepts group messages, telephone only accepts express delivery, and SMS only receives verification code. It seems that people no longer need to interact online. What happened? Twenty years ago, I wanted to find friends online. After 20 years, I just want to make money on the Internet. Now the internet is full of all kinds of news, so we need to identify countless friends around us who want to dig gold from the internet and eventually become the leek of others and the fat under the sickle of others. Now people are also very simple, so simple that I want to carve money on my face and in my heart. Many friends of the Gu Mi team gave feedback in this way. They can be superior when they go home with money, and it is difficult to look up in front of relatives without money. In the past two years, the epidemic has narrowed the distance between people, thinking that the network can be improved, but I didn't expect the network to be spared. The epidemic has widened the distance between people. At present, the most concerned problem of COVID-19 pension institutions is the countermeasures. In order to prevent group infection, Japan's old-age care institutions require efforts to realize the slogan of "avoiding three secrets (closed, dense and close contact)" and ventilate the institutions every 1 to 2 hours. The shuttle bus of day care service always keeps the window slightly open when driving. In nursing stations, many people usually gather for meals at the same time, but in special periods, the elderly will be arranged to stagger the meal time to avoid close contact. In addition, open the distance between tables and chairs to avoid eating at close range. But for the elderly, changing the meal time and seats will bring problems beyond our imagination. In addition, the organization also canceled karaoke and other activities, and reduced the number of participants in physical function training in the form of group activities, or changed it to independent content. The oral function exercise is changed to the practice content of not spitting water droplets. The staff also staggered lunch time and kept enough social distance (about 2 meters or more) when eating. The organization also temporarily changed the idle room into an office, and tried to let employees work separately. Although these methods can avoid "three secrets" as much as possible, it is difficult to ensure enough social distance in nursing frontline work. Eating, bathing and excreting all require physical contact, so it is difficult to keep enough social distance with the elderly. Besides physical distance, we also need to consider psychosocial distance. This problem existed before the outbreak of COVID-19, and it is very important. People often think that the closer you get, the easier it is to establish a good intimate relationship, but this is not always the case. It's best to keep an appropriate psychological distance, recognize each other and not bring pressure to each other. Always remember to respect everyone who is taken care of, and you can naturally keep an appropriate psychological and social distance. In fact, the distance between people is very important in nursing work. The author once encountered such a scene in the day care center: a woman with a high degree of self-reliance shouted "leave me alone" to the nursing staff. That day was the first time she met the nursing staff. Nevertheless, the nurse is still talking to the old man at arm's length. This kind of distance is called intimacy distance, which is suitable for close parents or couples. Nurses have not established any relationship with the elderly, so close contact will inevitably make the other side feel uncomfortable. After establishing a certain degree of trust, it may not be unpleasant to communicate at such a distance. Nurses who have frequent contact with the elderly who need care may naturally accept close proximity. But for the elderly, even if they don't like being touched, they have to accept it for nursing needs. This irresistible contact may bring psychological pressure. This requires nurses to pay attention to whether the distance is too close. You should carefully observe the old man's reaction. If you find the old man turning his head or leaning back, you should pay attention to keeping a certain distance. However, this does not apply in all cases. For example, for the elderly with severe cognitive impairment or bedridden, touching the body can awaken each other's hearts and promote better communication. Therefore, it is necessary for nurses to grasp the changing physical and mental conditions of the elderly and their relationship with themselves, and then determine what kind of distance should be kept. The COVID-19 epidemic not only changed our society and life, but also had a great impact on interpersonal relationships. Interpersonal relationships may become fragile or deeper, which requires us to re-examine and think.