Chinese New Year is coming, how should I deal with my parents' urging marriage?

First of all, understand the psychology of parents. Deeply influenced by traditional culture, they want to have children, have a harmonious family and have many children and grandchildren. They strongly demand marriage, because they think it's good for you and hope you have a good life.

When you find out your parents' motives for urging marriage and respect the differences between generations, do you think urging marriage is not as annoying as you think?

Secondly, I will talk about the response-Yang serving Yin disobeying.

Don't take it too seriously as long as it doesn't involve issues of principle. Just verbally promised parents at home, try not to have conflicts with them. It's rare to go home once, so don't make the atmosphere at home too tense. What should I do after work?

If parents find other elders with ordinary relationships to urge marriage, they can respond politely+not participate in the discussion+not refute+end the topic as soon as possible.

Keep smiling, take the initiative to say hello, bring fruit and water, and leave a good impression of hospitality to the elders.

Make them embarrassed to criticize you, or use food to block the words that are about to blurt out.

Example: "Uncle/Uncle/Uncle, hello, long time no see, how are you?" Come and eat the fruit (pass it to him). How about you try my tea (bring it to him)? "

After greeting, hide in the corner as soon as possible, because you are not the protagonist in the social circle of middle-aged and elderly people, so don't participate in the conversation, otherwise it will be easy to get a chestnut from the fire. The social circle of middle-aged and elderly people is your parents' home. If you reduce your contact with them, you can avoid conflicts to the greatest extent.

Listen obediently, don't fight or refute, agree with everything the elders say, and let the elders control what they say within two sentences.

Example: "Uncle, you are right! I will try to find it! " (and then quickly end the topic).