As an introverted and honest boy, I really want to have a girlfriend, but I never know how to chase girls. Is it destined that an honest boy is more popular with girls than a bad boy?

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I see you are very sincere, little brother, I will help you answer the question seriously, I have put all my effort into it

Introversion

It is definitely not a problem

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The problem is you yourself

If you don’t want to go,

Let me teach you how to pick up girls! ! !

As someone who has been there, I have experienced you

In this stage, pursuing the girl you like is indeed interesting but the process can also be very tangled. Reading your content really makes me miss it very much.

I also chased a girl when I was a freshman

I was not sensible at first, so I confessed my love to her after drinking, but she didn’t like me at all. She had no idea at all. That kind of thing, so I am also a shameless person, so I just struggled for a whole year. I didn’t expect that she didn’t talk to her this year. Many people chased her, but they didn’t succeed. When I was a sophomore, I A small achievement, hehe, it only took a week to catch up with her,

You can look at my experience.

First of all, attitude is very important. When chasing girls, you can’t be swayed too easily! For example, if you were rejected today, don't be discouraged. Women, if I become your wife, you won't be an uncle yet, so you have to endure this grievance! The same goes for your career success. Cherish it!

That's wrong

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In view of your situation, buddy, let me analyze it. In today’s world, if you want to successfully pursue a girl! You can’t use conventional methods! Especially now you all have a misunderstanding

. You all want to confess that you feel that something is wrong with you, and then

wait for others to "admit" it after confessing. I'm right, right'

It’s easy to fail like this, brother. Especially

if the other person has no feelings for you. Because girls will think that you confess your love even if you don’t have any friendship, so you are not stable and insecure. (My girlfriend told me

)

Actually, in this case, you can kiss her first before confessing! In this way, the other party will feel fresh and exciting. If it is the first kiss, it will be even more heart-wrenching! (I think you can do it

) Many years of experience! ! !

You must be fast, accurate and ruthless when chasing your child. I mean at the most critical time, listen to me. I am typing you word for word. You cannot follow the rules

The cards are out, the usual logic of pursuing girls is outdated!

I will tell you some of my experiences and my understanding below. Hope this helps! !

My experience: When you like a girl, you have to calm down first and don’t think too wonderfully.

The next thing you have to do is to find opportunities to slowly get close to him when everyone is doing activities together

. Be careful, don't hang around her all the time, otherwise people will be disgusted. What you have to do is to make yourself excellent in all aspects

Increase your capital. For example, playing the piano, hip-hop dancing, computer programming, singing well, writing beautifully, calligraphy, etc., of course the most important thing is career! ! ! If you do a good job in your career, you will make more money, and if you study well as a student, you will gain more attention.

The competitiveness is also great!

I sincerely share my

experience, I hope you can learn the essence from it! In short, it is "to pick up girls, haste makes waste, desire does not get what you want, you should stay away from her, step by step, and finally win her heart

! Also,

don't have a teacher by her side. Akira, you need to accumulate capital! Do you understand, women don’t like people who hang around her all day long?

Your next step is to develop slowly, slowly. Make a date with her, and then unconsciously try to share your little secrets with her, so that the two of you become good friends who talk about everything, and finally on a certain day, and then on a day with fewer people.

When you are chatting together again, you try to ask her about her boyfriend and girlfriend, and then give him a hint. At that time, don’t be timid, it’s best to go drink

After a glass of wine, if you think you have a good grasp, you can ask her, for example, what kind of person do you think I am, etc., and then take advantage of his hesitation, kiss her directly, and it's done

, Confession, we will talk about it later when you are intimate, haha. Just like that, she became my girlfriend,

And the seed has been planted in my heart!

!

This is how I succeeded. In short, this is something that cannot be rushed. Only when you finally succeed will you feel the progress of your time.

It’s considered pay off, that feeling is so wonderful!

Ha, at this point, I might as well share the process of my confession:

I What I said to my girlfriend when I confessed my love was: X, do you know that you can meet the right person at the right time? There are not many opportunities like this in your life. That person is you, I hope you can give me a chance to love you, my dear! Then my girlfriend threw herself into my arms and refused to get up!

(Of course the two of us chatted very ambiguously at the time

I felt it was the right time, the timing must be grasped! Don’t be too hasty, because girls like romantic moments, warm moments It feels like this! He will never forget it for the rest of his life. It's better to kiss her if you hesitate! But you have to be prepared to be slapped by her. Of course, I don't think this counts. What! After all, if you want to get your happiness, the price of a slap is too small!

In fact, confession is just a form, and the correct order should be: In fact, it is already. Once you become your girlfriend, you can confess your feelings to others. It will be a matter of course. Many people don't understand this problem. They always think that others agree to be their girlfriend first and then do whatever happens. How, I can only say that he is very

very "simple" and also very, very "stupid"

Is there ever a time when he "has no choice but to confess"?

Yes, for example, there is a third party, or

The relationship between you and the girl is not mature but the two of you may be separated for a period of time.

The conditions for confession at this time are not mature. Confession is very risky, similar to the situation in Go when the situation is serious. The lagging side is forced to release the "winner's hand". If it wins, it wins, and if it loses, it can only

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It is said that "all bad luck is born".

Don’t say the word "love" easily

I often see "bold confessions" appearing on forums. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance.

"Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment, and even reflects

a responsibility.

Haha, and do you know what the highest level is?

A man never asked "Are you willing to be my girlfriend" until he went to bed with a woman? In the end The girl is still anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend?

Ah!

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This is completely written by me, and I feel it personally, Hope this helps the original poster! I’m so exhausted from writing... Ha, I didn’t expect it to be quite a lot.

No matter how much I can help you

that’s all! ! ! According to my method, the success rate is very high

It is very effective! Girls all like excitement, haha

I wish the poster can pursue happiness as soon as possible! ! ! ! Happy life

Happy life!

Second supplementary answer...I suddenly thought of saying something more! ! !

Brother, there is a problem that needs attention.

It's best not to let her notice your feelings for her so quickly, otherwise some girls will hurt your enthusiasm if they don't do enough to break your indifference. I used to do it when I was a rookie.

You see, what you do anyway is to improve your strength.

Things that improve your strength will be useful in the future... What do you think? I will give you a final sentence: Women are for love. It's not meant to hurt, understand the true meaning of this sentence

and practice it

in your actions, basically you will succeed in picking up 10 or 11 girls!

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