Ask for help, how to express it euphemistically?

When I ask for help, I always feel that I am short of three points, and I am worried that the other party will disagree. Here are 30 euphemistic expressions of asking for help, which can reduce the psychological pressure of asking for help and increase the chances of success.

1. Indirect method: It is easy to accept the request through indirect expression and negotiation. Good expression: can you do me a favor and handle this matter as soon as possible? Do it for me as soon as possible.

2. Slow talk method: use auxiliary language to reduce the pressure of discourse, avoid rudeness, and fully safeguard each other's face. Good expression: Xiao Wang, I wonder if you can take this letter to him? Xiao Wang, take this letter to him!

3. Pessimism: Express your requirements by revealing that you don't believe that you can succeed, and give the other party and yourself a way out. Good expression: You may not like it, but I still want to trouble you. Contrast expression: where are you going!

4. Shrinking method: Make the requirements very small, let the other party accept them, and satisfy their own wishes and requirements. Good expression: just help me with this step and I'll do the rest myself. It's all up to you (provided that the other party is a little difficult).

5. Polite method: It is polite to express your request by raising the other person and belittling yourself. Good expression: Don't refuse, we are all waiting for you. Please attend our meeting.

6. Know your mistakes: show that you know you shouldn't make demands, out of helplessness. Good expression: I really shouldn't bother you at this time, but there is really no way. Please go there.

7. Understanding method: first explain that you understand each other's feelings, and then make a request. Good expression: I know you are short of money, but I have no choice but to borrow it from you. Please lend me some money.