The first WeChat chat on blind date

1 First of all, you added the other party. After the other party passes, take the initiative to introduce where you are from. Introduce yourself briefly, such as where you come from, how old you are, how tall and fat you are, who is at home, where you work, whether you have children, whether you smoke, explain why, and then send her some recent photos. The purpose is to disappoint the other party and hope to make her wary. After talking for a while, I can say, nice to meet you. Now I have a meeting. I'll bother you when I'm free. At about 10.30 in the evening, I can send her a message. The content can be very simple. Don't say anything, what are you doing? You can just say this nonsense. I was thinking about you. If she answers you, I can talk about something else. If she is not enthusiastic, it doesn't matter. Get a beauty sleep early. Many people here are not familiar with it. Why do I miss you? In fact, when a person sends a message to the other party, he just misses her, so he just misses her. Not at all, just like many beauty salons call everyone dear now. Similarly, when you wake up the next morning, you can tell her that you slept well last night. I want to say why I said so much about breakfast. Why do mothers all over the world always think their children are the most beautiful? Don't meet too early before two people are not very familiar, otherwise it's really just a blind date. In reality, we all look at the surface, the face, the conditions and the family background. If you are not so confident about your appearance, be patient and get to know her. She thinks of you as one of her own. I wouldn't care so much about the blind date's first WeChat chat 2. In fact, Xiaoling's question is very common in blind date. Bian Xiao thinks it's nothing to say hello. Many boys who don't know how to pick up girls are not very active, but this just proves that he is actually a good man. Boys who are generally too good at picking up girls, that is, the so-called love masters, are glib but not attractive to girls. To solve this problem, Xiaoling should not only take the initiative to say hello, the content of greeting, but also have a good opening remarks, so that the other party will be interested in you and have the desire to continue chatting with you. If your opening remarks are too boring, you may make the other person stop chatting with you after greeting. At this time, you can choose a funny joke, a thoughtful greeting, or imitate the dialogue in the movie, which will make the other party feel that you are an interesting or polite person, at least not because of it. I remember the last blind date, the blind date introduced by a friend suddenly sent me a message 1 in the morning. I was awakened as soon as I fell asleep. Although I woke up and saw his news, I didn't reply to him, because if I reply to him this time, it will probably be midnight next time. Besides, this blind date always sends me messages during my working hours. I was so busy at work that I didn't have time to reply to him. Later, he told my friend that I was too cold and slow to reply, and I was completely speechless. When I first added the blind date WeChat, the two were still strangers. I don't know when the other person is free, but at least I must know the chat opportunity, and I won't choose the chat opportunity. If the other party doesn't have time to reply, it is likely to cause many misunderstandings. If you don't know when the other person is free, you can choose noon, after work at night or on weekends, or after the other person has made a circle of friends, before going to bed at night, of course not in the early hours. These hours are more suitable for chatting, knowing ourselves and knowing each other is invincible, knowing each other's schedule and not disturbing others. This is also the basic courtesy of being a man. Thirdly, the chat topic has a wonderful prologue and a suitable chat opportunity, so how to choose the next chat content and what kind of topic is more suitable, I think this is a problem that puzzles many people. Chatting with strangers for the first time, because of lack of understanding, it is easy to get bored if you talk about topics that the other person is not interested in. But many people don't know what kind of topic the other person is interested in. For example, a blind date I once met sent a message every morning. Did she eat, go to work, eat at noon, take a lunch break and get off work? Have you eaten? Have you slept? Although it is really kind, but every day, the topic will never escape these, and it is really boring after a long time, and there is no common topic with him. At this time, if you really don't know what to talk about with the blind date, go and see that person's circle of friends, and you can choose a chat topic according to the content of her/his circle of friends. For example, if you see him distributing a good book in a circle of friends, you can casually tell him that a writer's book is good and ask him what kind of book he likes. If you see a friend who likes to eat barbecue in her circle of friends, you can say that I went to a very authentic Korean food with my friends before, and the Korean barbecue inside was delicious. I haven't been there for a long time. I really miss it. If the other person sends a photo of herself in the cafe without saying anything, you can ask her where she likes to go for coffee and what places she recommends, and she will be able to introduce it to you endlessly. After getting to know each other through a circle of friends, she will quickly master some hobbies, lifestyles, etc., and then talk to each other about such topics in a targeted manner, which may lead to many common topics and narrow the distance between you. Or take the way of rescue, such as cousin's birthday recently, don't know what to send, ask her for any good suggestions, and so on. Two people can talk a lot about gifts, but don't ask some closed questions, such as do you like hot pot? The other person may answer yes or no, and then there is no more. Fourth, pay attention to the discretion because the blind date is two strangers, and in most cases, they have never met. Just add WeChat to find out first. If you two haven't met, it's easy for the other person to think that you are unreliable and too glib to talk about disgusting love words or topics about getting married and having children in the future. For example, I met a blind date before, that is, we didn't talk for a few days, and that blind date began to send some words like "I love you and miss you". I think he is still excellent, but he is too casual emotionally and eager to show himself before meeting, so it is best to pay attention to his discretion before figuring out the relationship between two people. As for the topic of getting married and having children, it is not impossible to talk about it, but we should also pay attention to one degree. If the other person is not interested in this topic or I avoid it, don't talk about it, that's enough. If you really want to know each other's views on this matter, you can wait until the two are familiar with each other before asking tentatively. Blind date 3 The first WeChat chat 1. Knowing what the other person likes and has any hobbies in advance can help you quickly start the chat mode. You can ask the reference materials and friends about these and remember them carefully. In the process of your chat, you can find a good time to say these things, she will be very curious, and she will also have a good impression because of your caution, which will narrow the distance. Second, find a good topic. You can communicate and understand each other in detail according to each other's personality, hobbies, habits, family environment and cultural level, which will help your married life. In addition, you can continue to talk about your privacy, but both sides must be honest with each other and don't hide anything. In the process of chatting, the man must take the initiative, grasp the overall situation and master a degree. When you find that the other person is not interested in the topic you are talking about, you must change the topic quickly. As a man, patience and self-confidence are necessary. Be generous and don't be shy. Don't continue to talk about topics that girls care about. After a blind date, chatting should be your happiest time. I once tried my best to my ex-girlfriend, and even begging and kneeling failed to save her heart. Later, after a complete breakup, I read a book about picking up girls-The Manipulation of Love. I studied it carefully and changed myself completely according to the method inside, only to find out how wrong it was to fall in love before. Now my sisters have changed one after another and go on strike every night. Brothers in need suggest studying. There are e-books on the Internet. I hope it helps you. Now I can win my sister by chatting and make her fall in love with me deeply. Third, don't be too reserved. It is inevitable that the scene will be a little stiff when you start chatting, but don't be a terminator. Like some modal particles, try to avoid using them, and the other party will reply you a few. If your chat becomes awkward, change the topic quickly, as long as you keep a good atmosphere. If you start dating, the same method still applies. Fourth, have a sense of humor. Don't be too serious when you start WeChat chat. You can relax properly and have a sense of humor, so you won't be embarrassed naturally. But humor must pay attention to the way, don't use the wrong way, but to make the other person feel that you are very creative, you must give the other person a feeling that you are a gentleman. After all, in a word, you must be confident and treat her as your good friend. Together with these skills, you will definitely get extra points. 5. Try to avoid making phone calls. You just met, so it's hard to avoid being embarrassed to call. But WeChat chat is a good solution, which can give you enough time to think about how to answer and ask each other. Remember not to ask about each other's past in case of auditing. 6. Don't be too hasty. Don't just talk to each other for a few days or meet each other and rush to determine the relationship, because good girls and good boys are not so hasty.