How to deal with third parties?

First of all, you need to know clearly what the consequences will be if the third party succeeds, so now you should collect evidence to prove that your father has a third party outside. If this happens, you will really get divorced. Your mother can get the maximum benefit. Secondly, I think it is indecent to tear her face apart, because in that case, the woman and your father will be more careless and go out more and more. They think about it, anyway, the family knows about it, so what are they afraid of? , so you and your mother should pull your father back, don't push it out. You can serve as a link, let your father come back at night, say hello to your father, and let your mother look for problems within yourself, because flies don't bite seamless eggs. Or there are some problems in the family, such as your father is under great pressure at work and cannot find anyone to vent to, or something like that, so you must grasp this balance and do some work for your mother, because you want to maintain the family, and finally, financially It must be noted that usually the third party is interested in money. Once the man has no money, the third party will quarrel. In this way, the man will not feel that there is anything good about her and will naturally return to his warm home. , so you can find a way to hand over your father's money, you know? You need to use your mind. Generally, when there is a primary conflict (the conflict between your family, your father and a third party), the secondary conflict will not appear (the conflict between your father and the third party), so You must eliminate the main contradiction, so that if they have a conflict, you and your mother will be the biggest beneficiaries. Men need care. Only love, care and family affection can keep a man's heart, you know?