"Are you coming tonight? My wife is not at home?" The man sent a short message to his wife by mistake. What happened?

Lauters once said: "It is good to control love properly with reason, but it is bad to abuse love crazily."

True love is always single-minded, and the field of love is very narrow, so narrow that only two people can survive. If you love several people at the same time, it's not love, it's just an emotional game. If you win, you lose The divorce rate in China is very high now. Mainly young people are impetuous and impulsive. They got married without careful consideration in the face of love, and they could not control themselves rationally in the face of the temptation after marriage. So extramarital affairs breed, they begin to cheat, and finally expose divorce. After all, few people can accept betrayal. Love itself is fragile. Some people not only don't work hard, but also don't care to spoil and consume love. They only wake up after losing everything.

Mr. Zhao in the community is 36 years old and has been married to his wife Qin Xiao for ten years. They have a good relationship. A 7-year-old son is smart and lovely, and his academic performance is among the best. It is the envy of many people in the community. However, his wife recently began to divorce, and no matter how Mr. Zhao apologized, it could not be redeemed. Because Mr. Zhao's family conditions are average, the house belongs to his wife after marriage and she bought the car.

Some time ago, my wife was on a business trip for a few days, but she received a text message from her husband, which made her husband's extramarital affairs surface. The message said, "Are you coming tonight? My wife is not at home. " Mr. Zhao sent a short message by mistake. It's not WeChat, so he can't withdraw cash, so he exposed himself. His wife went home to let Mr. Zhao go out clean, and it was obvious that any woman would follow him clean. Mr. Zhao realized that he had been apologizing for his mistakes, but his wife still didn't forgive him and resolutely divorced.

In fact, the relationship between husband and wife will go through some dull periods, but there are many temptations from outside. Some irrational people try to seek pleasure through extramarital affairs, thinking that they can hide it, but there is no impenetrable wall in the world, and stupid people will block their love and marriage and take risks. So what are the potential factors of extramarital affairs? The specific points are as follows.

0 1. Husband and wife lead irregular and unromantic lives.

Even husband and wife have to hand in their homework. After all, the reaction between loving and not loving the body is the most obvious. Without close contact for a long time, two people will gradually become indifferent psychologically and physically.

02. There is no sincere communication between husband and wife.

Don't hide from each other, be honest with each other, say what you want to say, and put an end to contradictions. You know, there are many minor contradictions, and the feelings of husband and wife will be worn away, which will reduce the degree of obedience and mutual love.

03. Couples spend little time together.

Husband and wife are busy with their work and have no time to be alone with each other, which will dilute their feelings and make it easy for a third party to intervene.

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In short, extramarital affairs is a big adventure without an ending, which often makes people fall off the cliff of love and fall to pieces. Marriage is plain, since you have chosen a person to enter the marriage hall, you must be responsible for this marriage and be loyal to this person.