I'm sorry to bother you again today. How to reply and show high EQ?

People with high emotional intelligence reply, hehe, refer to the following:

In the face of "hehe", how to reply tactfully? ㈠

I believe many people hate the word "hehe". It's better not to say it, and people don't understand nonsense.

"Hehe" is really a wonderful word. When you have nothing to say, when you don't want to say anything, it cleverly avoids the impoliteness of not returning people's words. But in fact, there is such a message: "It's too boring to talk to you."

Then, when you see these two words sent to you by others on QQ, WeChat or SMS, how should you reply? Keep talking about the old topic? Change the subject and continue? Or say goodbye politely?

The first method is of course the stupidest. When she said "Hehe", did she really laugh where you couldn't see it? Of course not, it was a helpless wry smile. She didn't want to continue talking with you at all, but she had to reply out of courtesy. That's why we use such meaningless words. If you continue to talk to yourself at this time, she will definitely ignore the conversation you initiated next time. There is no doubt that you will pass by her.

And change the subject? That sounds like a good idea. But the effect is not good. When she is tired of you and just wants to please you quickly, no matter how attractive your topic is, she will only yawn and barely cope. Your score in her heart will also be greatly reduced.

No matter how much you don't want to stop this conversation and want to continue chatting with her, you must learn to give up what you want. There is an old saying: give up and you will get it. When she sent you away with meaningless words like "hehe", "well" and "nothing" more than once, you should realize that your conversation failed. If you die now, you can start over; If you insist, unfortunately, you will come to no good end.

Of course, how to interrupt is also skillful. "It's getting late. Go to bed early." "Busy with you, don't bother you." Indeed, such a farewell way will make her breathe a sigh of relief, and it will not reduce points, but it will not add points. Whether she will talk to you next time depends entirely on her mood. So, when you have to interrupt this conversation, your farewell can be clever. Smart enough to rekindle her curiosity, make her interested in you, and make her look forward to your next chat instead of thinking, "This guy is really annoying."