After having an extramarital affair, how to break up with your lover skillfully and completely

The mistress laughed at me because I don’t understand men’s hearts. Teacher Gufei teaches you how to fight back

Xiao He is a beautiful woman. She has a beautiful appearance but has unspeakable physical problems. This problem is huge. It affected the normal married life of Xiao He and her husband. Although after adjustment, Xiao He could already live a normal married life with her husband. Unfortunately, the number of times was still limited, which left the opportunity for a third party to intervene.

But fortunately, Xiao He still has certain advantages in appearance. Although this advantage can help Xiao He resist ordinary mistresses, it cannot prevent mistresses with "scheming" intentions, and the mistress whose husband cheated on Xiao He , happens to be a very scheming mistress.

First of all, after the mistress got close to her husband, she was not eager to launch an attack. Instead, she launched a large number of "chat offensives." Because the mistress is very "scheming" and knows how to please a man, the husband gradually feels that the mistress is the one who really "understands" him during daily text messages and chats. On the contrary, he feels that Xiao He's "IQ" is too low and the two of them cannot talk at all. Come together.

Then, the mistress, who had already committed deviant behavior, deliberately secretly put her underwear and other personal items into her husband’s bag. Xiao He, who was helping to pack the bag, accidentally discovered that this blatant provocation and ridicule to the mistress. He's behavior with physical problems greatly stimulated Xiao He. Impulsively, Xiao He adopted the "crying" method that most women would use to fight back. Unfortunately, not only was it ineffective, but it also made Xiao He "irrational" The "smartness" of the mistress is clearly visible in front of her husband.

After learning from the pain, Xiao He finally realized that although she could not become smarter, she could find smarter professional marriage counselors to solve the problem, so she found Yuandun Emotional Counselor, a famous marriage and love expert, for help. A national second-level psychological counselor, she received six years of psychoanalytic training in Germany and three years of relationship trauma therapy training at a European human organization. Teacher Gu Fei, who has been engaged in marriage and family counseling for more than 20 years, offered her a helping hand in time.

Calming down as soon as possible and re-establishing an effective way of communicating with her husband are two issues that Xiao He urgently needs to solve, but these two issues are by no means as simple as saying them. Teacher Gu Fei used his professional knowledge and successful experience to help Xiao He reach a level that she had never been able to achieve in the past.

“If you want to defeat others, you must first defeat yourself.”

This sentence also applies to marriages that encounter mistress crises. For Xiao He, instead of working all day long, If you are thinking hard about how to deal with a mistress, you might as well improve yourself and improve the way you communicate with your husband.

Xiao He followed Teacher Gu Fei’s entire set of instructions and received miraculous results in less than a month. Not only did his husband cut off contact with his mistress, his mother-in-law even offered to give him a house. To Xiao He as atonement for his son.

Retiring from junior high school is only a temporary success, while self-improvement is a lifelong success. Teacher Gu Fei also reminds wives who are experiencing mistress crisis that many ways to solve problems are actually very simple to say. They are nothing more than calm response, strengthening communication, self-improvement, etc., but actually doing it is another matter. After all, It is not easy for a client who is struck by betrayal to calm down quickly. How to calm down, how to strengthen communication, how to improve oneself, etc. These problems require a truly professional marriage counselor to solve .