What should I do if a cold war man sends you a text message asking if you want to go with him?

Shameless, don't rush him too much. The cold war is definitely not the best way to solve the problem, but a shortcut to let each other go further and further. When you go home, quarrel with him and vent your grievances and unhappiness. You have to communicate, but if you don't communicate, this problem will always exist, and if it is not solved, it will fight for similar problems in the future. ...