What about being broken up, Zhihu?

Don't worry, the best way is to find another one!

I remember a song that goes like this: falling in love is always simple, getting along is too difficult, so don't force it if it's not yours.

In love, there are many things that cannot be explained. Sometimes two people have different views on things and problems, so there may be cracks in opinions and feelings. Therefore, if they lack tolerance and understanding at this time, they will inevitably hurt each other. No one is perfect, everyone has advantages and disadvantages. Don't always see the shortcomings of others and ignore the advantages.

What you are asking is the sudden breakup, which can be analyzed as the following reasons:

1. Maybe you have a problem, or maybe your other half has a problem that she can't accept, so she broke up. (Does it involve a third party)

You two don't trust each other in your communication, and you can't get proper explanation and explanation for a long time, which leads to the breakdown of your feelings.

3. Other unexpected things happened, which led to the forced breakup.

In view of the above possible problems, the suggestions are as follows;

1. Re-examine whether there have been any contradictions in your communication. If so, then analyze the crux of the problem and sum up whether your disposal is appropriate, so as to avoid repeating the same mistakes in the future.

2. Turn your energy to other hobbies or work and study to make up for your own shortcomings and add more strength to a better you.

3. Stop pestering past feelings and face the future rationally; A gentleman is poor, who wants to meet today without paying for drinks? There are always people you like and people who like you waiting for you.

Summarize; Men and women, if they don't like it, they just don't like it. The so-called reason for breaking up is just comfort and an excuse. Although it is painful after breaking up, as adults, we should control our emotions rationally and calmly and focus on other interesting things. For example, find another one, or accept another person waiting for you.