The psychology of a man who likes to chat.

The psychology of a man who likes to chat? When I was young, I had a boyfriend who liked chatting very much. At that time, the word chat had not been invented, and it was a popular era of online chat. I just vaguely found that there was something wrong with this boy, and I found that he was chatting with girls online when he was free, and he also developed many intimate sisters.

However, this boy and his girlfriend have little to talk about. Every night when he calls, he will talk. He said he was sleepy and wanted to hang up. Later, he suddenly found that every time he hung up on me, he continued to chat with other young ladies on the phone until late at night.

And the other party's phone is often down. Once, I paid the phone bill to the other party and stopped it in less than a day. I didn't know until I asked, because he called another female classmate to pay the bill.

Moreover, you can often find that his buckle and SMS chat records are ambiguous and flirt with other girls, but he refuses to admit that you have violated his privacy, made trouble without reason, and are not derailed without substance (not sleeping, just chatting). )

I am also puzzled to ask each other, why do you always chat with other girls? His answer is, because it's boring, boring is nothing, and it's hard not to find someone to talk to. Asked why he would rather chat with other girls than his girlfriend, he said that because he felt it was inconvenient to chat with his girlfriend, it was not new to his girlfriend.

At that time, I was still young, and I had all kinds of fantasies to change such people. But the fact is, playboy is playboy, flirting is just one of the manifestations of playboy, and there are all kinds of surprise packages, cheating, dating, hooking up with my ex, whatever you want, people can change it for you.

Therefore, girls find that their boyfriends love to chat before marriage, and they can basically classify each other as the kind of person with high derailment rate. You really need to think twice whether you want to go on or not.

Moreover, this kind of man is not just chatting, many of them are really incompetent, because his mind is not thinking about studying hard and developing his career all day, so he is so "idle" and has a lot of time to spend on picking up girls. After five years and ten years, you see that he is still like that, with no progress at all.

For such a coquettish man, many simple girls may find each other "interesting" and "humorous" when they meet for the first time, but only after real communication will they know that he is so humorous to other women. It is unlikely that you really want to use him in your life. Because his attention and energy are always on the little girls he doesn't attract, how can he be nice to you?