Why do boys ignore each other after their confession is rejected? Can you expect him to be an ordinary friend?

You don't mind if I take you as the protagonist of the incident. A boy confessed to you that you didn't like him and turned him down. After that, the boy ignored you, and you felt a little lost and wanted to be friends with him. Then let me talk about my own views on this matter.

Do you want to use him as a backup?

The word spare tire is not uncommon, and it has almost become synonymous with a class of people. A lot of tooling sounds good, called blue confidante, but it is actually a spare tire for thousands of years. As a woman, I certainly hope that the more spare tires, the better. This can satisfy your vanity to a certain extent, but not all men are willing to be spare tires. If you don't accept him, of course he will want to pursue other objects. It's normal to ignore you

Embarrassment psychology

Generally speaking, some people like you very much and don't take confession seriously once. Keep pursuing! There are many such people. But everyone's personality is different. He finally got up the courage to tell you, but you refused. He may feel that there is no chance in the future, so he will feel embarrassed to face you. I can't go back to my previous anger, so it's human nature to try to avoid you, and gradually I won't have to face it. So we all say we are not sure, so don't confess easily.

Ordinary friends are too fake.

I think it's really too few for a boy and a girl to be ordinary friends. Generally speaking, they all have a certain purpose. For example, this boy wants to get close to you and pursue you. or vice versa, Dallas to the auditorium Do you think he expressed his purpose and you turned him down? So, as ordinary friends, what are you going to do together in the future? Can we still eat and go shopping together? What would the boy think if he looked for it later and the girlfriend behind him found that his boyfriend was still in contact with the object he had confessed? It is always necessary to avoid suspicion.

So confession means either becoming lovers or. Friends have nothing to do with it. Even if we are friends in the future on the surface, it is embarrassing to some extent, and I think there must be some purpose for boys to approach a girl. If you can't reach your goal, you won't spend more energy on it. It was normal at that time. Do you want to follow you silently, thinking that they are all TV dramas?