Do you think something good will happen if a classmate you haven’t contacted for many years suddenly contacts you?

I think there are several reasons: I want to borrow money from you. This is the most common. Many classmates or friends have not been in touch for many years. It must be urgent to find you suddenly. It's not easy to talk to people if you don't have a way. However, in this case, if you are not sure of the other party's basic situation, it is best not to decide to lend him so quickly, and be careful with money even if the number is stolen.

I have started a micro-business, and I will sell it to you. This situation is also very common. You never know which of your classmates will suddenly do derivative work on any day and continue to send a large number of messages to promote his products to you. Likewise, let you go to his circle of friends and praise him. After the compliment is over, you send a mass message to say thank you. Normally, you don't want to reply to him, but if some of you don't reply, he will keep looking for you because he has to praise you or buy his products, but in your heart, you no longer have a good impression of this person.

If you get married, you will receive money from your family members. An old classmate who you haven't contacted for many years suddenly sends you a message telling you that he is getting married. Your first reaction at this point is, how much do you want to give? Or how much is appropriate? I've come across this message more than once. If I'm in a bad relationship, I'll pretend I don't see it. If the relationship is normal, I will discuss it with other students and see how much they give. When I was in school, I was a classmate, but after graduation, I went my own way and had no contact for many years. This time he told himself he was getting married, which was really awkward. Let's go to the wedding. No need. I didn't go. I was invited again. As for whether to go or not, and how much is appropriate, it all depends on the depth of the relationship.

Group blessings during the holidays. You must have received quite a few too. When the holidays are celebrated, you will receive many text messages from mass groups. Mass messaging is really annoying because it is not sincere and because there is no contact during the holidays, sending messages during holidays is particularly intentional. However, even if I haven't contacted you for many years, after all, I was once a classmate, and it would be bad for you not to reply, so you can only have a simple awkward conversation to show politeness. However, some people are flooded with messages and don’t respond directly. So contacting you suddenly is definitely not a good thing. The above is just a personal opinion.