How to invite leaders to dinner and make them happy to agree to jump ship?

First, invite the leaders to have dinner and make preparations in advance.

The leader is not short of your food and wine, nor will he easily agree to invite people who are not familiar with his subordinates to dinner. I don't know your background, your intentions, and I feel uneasy about attending the dinner party you invited. After all, it's better to be happy when you're down.

Therefore, when the new leader takes office, he still has some precautions against the "old department" of the old leader. The new leader doesn't know you, is not close to you, is willing to maintain a working relationship with you, and doesn't want to get close to your personal relationship. You invite others to dinner rashly, paying no attention to anything, whether it is a traitor or a thief, and arousing your vigilance reflexively. Without paving the way and preparing for it, leaders will generally go downhill.

For example, after the new leader came, what helped you? You can invite leaders from the beginning. You can say: Leader, last time you gave me a training index, which benefited me a lot. I've been looking for an opportunity to propose a toast to you to express my deep gratitude. I wonder if you would like to join us tonight? Thanks for the wine, for the leaders, it is a thank-you afterwards. He has no psychological burden and is easy to promise you.

Second, think about accompanying guests in advance and inform the leaders in advance.

Walking in the workplace, the key to eating is not "rice", but "bureau". Which leader is short of your food? Since it is a social event, that is the rule in the "bureau". The workplace is like rivers and lakes, and there are rules everywhere. Hanako is not familiar with the new leader. Since you want to invite the new leader to dinner, you should plan ahead and figure out who to invite to accompany you. Otherwise, if you don't know clearly, you will be "general" on the spot by Zhang.

The rules of eating are actually an extension of the rules of the workplace. For example, your position is very low. If you want to invite senior leaders to dinner, you should invite a few people with a certain weight to accompany you, and the scene will be more harmonious and balanced. Hanako invited Director Zhang to dinner. Hanako sat opposite the leader and ate and stared at each other. It was embarrassing. No wonder Zhang called Hanako "rude" behind his back.

Director Zhang asked Hanako, "Who are there at night?" If Hanako plans ahead, he will say: Leader, I don't have enough weight. I invited General Manager Zhang and General Manager Zhou to accompany me. what do you think? Or, leader, who do you want me to ask to accompany you? Either prepare to accompany the guests or ask the leaders to bring people to accompany them. Since it is a dinner party, at least three or five people are more suitable.