On wechat and QQ? Why do we write letters in the prevailing times?

Question: Is writing a letter more sincere than sending a WeChat?

Zhihu has an answer like this:

"In WeChat, there are too many chat windows and messages are sent quickly. In a letter, it takes time to write and send. When you take the time to write a letter, true feelings will be instilled in every word. When the recipient reads your words, he will feel the emotions between the lines. "

There are too many records on WeChat. Will you look through hundreds of pages of chat records a few years ago? Me: The record of a few years ago is gone. How can I read them?

"Letters are eternal. After a few years, we looked at the letters we wrote ourselves and entrusted to our family and friendship, all of which recorded the life path we had traveled. "

I quite agree with this answer. Unfortunately, I have never written a letter in my life for more than 20 years. Even if I don't send it to others, writing it to myself is excellent. I will try to write in the future.

/kloc-One day in June of 0/9, the teacher shared a gift with us. That gift is very special. This is written by her students. In a selected handbag, there are many scenic photos, each of which was taken by her students themselves. There is also a long handwritten letter in the bag. What is more intimate is that there is a handwritten greeting at the back of each photo.

In this era of rapid network development, we have WeChat, QQ and Weibo, which can quickly convey our wishes. Someone took the time to write to you and carefully prepared gifts. It was really sincere and warm-hearted.

I haven't written a letter. I just read the book Camellia Stationery recently, and I realized that there are so many stresses in writing letters. Yukio Hatoyama, the protagonist, runs a camellia stationery store in Kamakura, and also undertakes the work of ghostwriting. After her grandmother died, she inherited the mantle and became the eleventh ghostwriter. Through her letters to others, I have a deeper understanding of writing letters.

Take the dear John letter from Miss Anonymous as an example.

Miss anonymous explains the situation to the pigeon (the leading actor):

"She used to be my best friend. People say we are sisters, but now it's different. I never want to see that woman again. Just thinking about her makes me uncomfortable. "

"We have been to many countries together. To be honest, traveling with her is a thousand times happier than going with my husband. But that woman is a fox. She lied to me. I will never forgive her. So I don't want to have any contact with her in my life, I don't want to see her again, and I don't want her to contact me. From now on, I just want to live quietly. "

In order to simply break it and reduce the pain of both sides. So she turned to Dove for help and asked her to write a dear John letter.

1. Because this is a letter that the two sides break off relations, in order to convey Miss Anonymous's determination, we should choose paper that can't even burn. Finally, the pigeon chose parchment. Although parchment is called "paper", it is a thin article made of animal skin, which is different from paper made of plant fibers.

2. When writing on parchment, you need to use insect gall ink-the more popular name is iron gall ink. The galls parasitic on plants were ground and mixed with iron filings, then treated with red wine and vinegar to reproduce the ink used in the Middle Ages, and finally Arabic gum was added to increase the viscosity. Although it looks pale at first, it will get darker as time goes on.

You can't use ink for pens, you must prepare quill pens. Feather pen is cut from the front end of goose feather. Before the metal pen was designed in the second half of18th century, it had been used as a writing tool for human beings for more than 1000 years.

Take Mrs. Corbis's condolence letter as an example.

Sha Tin's family has no children, so after discussing with her husband, Mrs Sha Tin took the monkey Gonnosuke home. When Okasuke died, Mrs. Corbis entrusted Mr. Hatoyama to write a condolence letter.

1. When writing a condolence letter, the direction of grinding ink is opposite to usual, that is, grinding ink counterclockwise.

2. The water in the center of the inkstone should be ground slowly with an ink stick, and it must be stopped at the right time. Because the ink used to write letters of condolence should not be too heavy (the reason why lighter ink is used is that tears drop on the inkstone because of excessive sadness, which makes the ink fade. )

3. In terms of wording, we must pay attention to and avoid using taboo words such as "repeatedly", "once again" and "repeatedly". At the same time, because mourners don't like death coming again, they can't write an afterword that starts with the words "besides" and "You Ji", and they don't need to write the words "pro-exhibition" and "Yu Zhong" at the lower left of the recipient's name, not to mention the ending.

Generally speaking, official letters will use double envelopes and funeral credit envelopes to avoid misfortune. Just like attending a funeral, you must avoid wearing heavy makeup or fancy jewelry. Envelopes, like stationery, should be white.

Take Mr Seitaro's love letter as an example.

Mr. Seitaro's father passed away many years ago, but his mother actually said that his father would send a letter home, so she clamored to go home.

His father loves his mother very much, so he writes to his wife from all over the world, sometimes even twice a day. Although his handwriting is full of majesty, his love for his wife is revealed between the lines. Almost all letters start with "Dear Hanazono Sakura" or "My Dear Hanazono Sakura", and the signature must be "the man who loves Hanazono Sakura the most in the world".

Mr. Seitaro's mother is still waiting for the letter from Mr. Wang ... In order to save her mother, he entrusted Mr. Pigeon to write a "love letter" for her mother instead of her father. ?

Pigeons put cold recycled paper for ordering food for guests (because pigeons were inspired and didn't bring writing paper) on hand-made base paper. In addition to the relief around the text, the paper is also covered with relief. After pasting the tissue paper, wax it.

1. First of all, the doves start with "Dear Hanazono Sakura" and end with "The person who loves Hanazono Sakura the most in the world". Because almost all of Mr. Seitaro's father's letters start with "Dear Hanazono Sakura" or "My Dear Hanazono Sakura", the signature must be "the person who loves Hanazono Sakura the most in the world".

There is a sentence in the letter "I have graduated from walking life". "Walking life" is a word invented by Mr. Seitaro's father before. He thinks that the earth is like a big rubber ball, and his life is like walking freely on this ball. I think dove wants to say goodbye to his mother in Seitaro's father's way.

3. Pigeons around the text are decorated with reliefs, and the paper is covered with reliefs, because Seitaro's mother loves flowers very much and planted many flowers at her home in Yokohama.

This letter is full of deep love and conveyed to Seitaro's mother. After receiving the love letter from heaven, his mother was sincerely happy. After that, I seemed to understand something. I stopped clamoring to go home and kept hanging the letter on my chest as an amulet.

The dove said, "Beautiful words are not only for beautiful appearance, but also for temperature, smile, stability and calmness." I don't think it is necessary to write beautiful words, and it doesn't matter if you write poorly. More importantly, it is full of true feelings. Write your feelings to that ta quickly!