How should girls talk when they don't return your messages?

First, judge for yourself why girls don't reply to your WeChat.

Generally speaking, if a girl suddenly doesn't reply to your WeChat, you should almost see the possible reasons from her daily performance. For example, these days, her attitude towards you is not as warm as before, or she is beginning to be distant and cold, and even breaking up with you. In this case, not returning your message may be based on the decision to break up with you. If it is not for this reason, the usual communication is still normal, it may be her personal reason. For example, I was busy, I didn't see the information, or I didn't pay attention to it when I saw it. Or there is something wrong with your mobile phone and I can't see your information. Or not feeling well. Wait a minute. Therefore, you should judge the reason by combining her state and recent performance.

second, try to communicate in another way to get to know the real situation.

when you send a lot of wechat messages, girls don't reply to you, and you can't judge the possible reasons for it for the time being. At this time, you can also try to communicate in another way. For example, send a text message to see if the other party will call you back. Or find a friend who is the same as you, or her family try to send a message to her to see if she can return the message. Or, just call her directly and ask her why she might exist. This is also reassuring. If, men and women in normal communication, suddenly one party sends a message and doesn't reply, the other party is not in a hurry and it is not normal. Finding anomalies and finding out the reasons in time is often a sign of love.

third, put it on hold, wait a while, change the time point, and then try to care.

Of course, if you think girls may be busy, or you may know the reason, such as sleeping in and not seeing the news, or shopping outside without time, you should stop sending messages all the time. Although you can't receive the girl's reply at the moment, but you also judge that it's nothing serious, just put it on hold for the time being and don't talk any more. Wait a minute. After waiting for a period of time, change the opportunity, then contact each other and try to care about it again. If you still don't get a response, you should call directly, or go and have a look if you are not far away, or find someone to have a look. In this way, if the other party knows that you care about her so much, it will still be very touched and will enhance feelings.

fourth, don't pester or harass repeatedly.

Many people, when they meet girls who don't reply to messages, will be restless and very flustered. They will think that the other person doesn't love themselves, and they want to break up with themselves, or there are people outside, with others, and so on. These self-generated paranoia will make you out of control. The performance is to send messages crazily until the other party responds, or dial the other party's phone number over and over again, initiate voice chat, etc. This kind of "bombing in turn" will make girls upset or feel terrible. She will think that you are only thinking about yourself, too selfish and self-centered, and will have a bad impression on you. Then, she may really break up with you, or get angry and blacken you. Therefore, it is important that when girls don't reply to your WeChat, don't pester them or harass them repeatedly.

In short, girls who don't reply to your WeChat don't necessarily love you. There may be many reasons. When you need to understand it, or when you don't understand it, try to pester it with care instead of with insecurity. The above four methods are the correct ways to deal with it. If used well, it can quickly warm up the feelings of men and women.