How to politely refuse a sudden loan from others?

Ways to refuse others to borrow money 1

1 Tell a friend that he still owes others money. This is the best chess game. When a friend borrows money from you, he will ask you for it because he thinks you will have some money left. When the other person knows that you not only have no money, but also need to borrow money from others, he will be more embarrassed to ask you about borrowing money, and even feel ashamed.

When it is not good to refuse directly, we have to take circuitous tactics, change the subject or have other reasons, mainly using the turning point of good tone-gentle and persistent-never agree, but it will not be torn. For example, express sympathy or praise to the other party first, then give reasons and refuse. Because the other person has psychologically narrowed the distance between them because of your sympathy, it is easier to accept your rejection with an "understandable" attitude.

3 ask for help from others, first stabilize the borrower, and then hide in the bathroom for help under the pretext of going to the bathroom. You can ask your friend to call you and ask you out in a hurry, and then take the opportunity to escape. Remember to take the borrower out of the house and never let him wait at your house. So as not to waste your energy.

You should check the borrower's trust before you borrow money. Once you lend money to others, you should trust him. Sometimes he can't decide when he can pay you back, so don't always urge him to pay you back, which will hurt your feelings more easily. If I had known this, you might as well not lend it to each other.

3 methods of refusing others to borrow money 2

1 compared with friends, calling for poverty is not easy for everyone and will encounter many difficulties. When friends talk about their difficulties, you can also tell them what is worse than your friends, or tell them what is more difficult, so that friends feel that their difficulties are so insignificant and even more embarrassed to mention borrowing money.

2. Give yourself reasons and preparations for euphemistically rejecting each other, and don't directly refuse for the first time. You should patiently ask the other person the reason for borrowing money, by the way, cleverly change the subject and ask him about his work and life, and then tell him something about yourself, preferably something that is not satisfactory economically in your work and life. This is to let him know that your situation is worse and you may not be able to help him. If he borrows money for buying a house, doing business, investing in stocks, buying a car, getting married, etc. You should find a firm reason to refuse him. If it is an emergency such as illness, and his reputation and repayment ability are good, then you might as well consider whether to help him.