Text your ex and make up.

Perhaps, before you start on the road of reconciliation, the dilemma you face is unexpected.

At first, when your partner broke up with you, you didn't care too much. After all, you were confident enough. In your opinion, he is just losing his temper, just like when two people quarrel, they will break up with each other. As long as they calm down for a few days, their relationship will be as good as ever.

But a few days later, you realize that he is not unreasonable, but serious. You started to panic, too. Before you figured out the reason for their emotional breakdown, you took the initiative to find him and kept apologizing, hoping that he would give you another chance.

However, he is calm enough to be cold enough to ignore you.

You finally can't stand it. Ask him hysterically why. Ask him why, but he can't give you the answer you want. He just says "I'm so tired" and "I don't feel anything." ...

Worried that he will leave, the two of them will never be together again. You can only pester him, make trouble without reason, and even be willing to ask him humbly. As long as he is willing to give you a chance, you can do anything. ...

But the result is that you find that he has been blackened.

In this case, can it be redeemed?

Lack of experience and impulsiveness make their situation worse and worse, and their feelings that could have been easily redeemed become more fragile and fragile.

However, even if you get to this point, it is not impossible to recover as long as you can keep calm and make a rational decision.

Even if you have been blacked out by him, you can send him a short message to quickly ease the relationship between the two of you, and then carry out your redemption.

1. Respect objective facts

Feelings are always a matter for two people.

Even if you don't want to, even if you don't want them to come this far, since he chose to end your relationship, he has to admit that this is a fact and you can't make a decision for him.

Therefore, no matter how worried you are that they will never come back, you should respect the objective facts and face up to the fact that they have broken up.

Yes, since the two have separated, let's face this reality rationally. Although your relationship has ended temporarily, it doesn't mean that you have no chance to start over.

2. Send a short message like this

Although he blacked you out, his real purpose is just to hope that you will stop bombing, which means that he will read it if you send him a text message.

Make appropriate adjustments, and then send him a short message to ease the state of the two of you:

"I calmed down recently and reflected a lot. I was surprised at my performance in the previous paragraph. Because of me, I'm really sorry that I couldn't keep their relationship going. Since you chose to end our relationship, I should respect your choice and always trust you as we did when we were together. Of course, I hope this is not the end of our relationship, because even if we can't be lovers, we can still be friends! "

Of course, the content of short messages should not be step by step, but learn to adjust according to local conditions and your own situation.

Get along as friends

When you send him such a short message in the above way, he will also realize that you have calmed down and stopped being so crazy.

The reason why your predecessor rejected you was not to resist your reorganization at all, but to avoid seeing you confused and making crazy reorganization proposals without making any changes at all.

Of course, he also has guilt in his heart, because he once promised you, but now he has resolutely broken up with you, and he will feel guilty in any case.

And when he saw your message, he knew that you had calmed down, and his attitude was rational, rational, very calm and generous. How can he be so stingy to avoid you?

The key to redemption is not to express your sincerity with various promises, but to show your attitude through words and actions, so as to completely dispel his resistance and make him willing to give you a chance to prove himself.

As long as his resistance no longer exists and the two can communicate calmly and get in touch again, then the feelings between them will be easy to get back.