It’s only a matter of time before my mistress writes to my first wife that I am disgraceful

The mistress wrote to her original wife: It’s only a matter of time before I become disgraced

Ms. Chen:

The last time I wrote back, I said please don’t bother me anymore. It seems you can’t do it either. Yes, although my letter is short and cryptic, the meaning contained in it is very clear. Today I will explain it clearly and in detail. I am sorry that I have to copy this letter to the man who is the same as us. I think for this reason, there is nothing to hide. All three of us can see it, and maybe there will be less trouble in the future.

The weather is nice today. I turned on the computer this morning and saw your email. I calmly read your two long letters and continued to work on business. Now that I have finished my work, I will slowly write you a reply. The mood is very calm, not painful or itchy, maybe the reason why I feel pain and sadness is just that I care about a person mentally. When I really don’t care anymore, everything related to him cannot arouse the sad mood. No matter what you do, You said in a tone of voice that I don’t even care. What can you do even if you scold me? It’s over now, just laugh it off...

I am not qualified to speak at the same level as you. In terms of law and public opinion, you have a naturally superior position, which is given to you by the marriage law. Of course, I cared about these things before, but now I don’t care at all. There is no need to think about being on the same level as you. I have given up, and naturally I have nothing to do with you. What you said came true. I politely say thank you, but this man will never have a marriage relationship with me in this life. I can only say that I am sorry that I have no chance to bear your generosity.

Third parties are disgraceful, but there are many third parties in this world, including celebrities, so being a third party has nothing to do with academic qualifications or reputation, and there is no need for you to lecture me. It has to do with academic qualifications. I like reading, so I read more books, that’s all. Looking at the history of the development of third parties among celebrities, it is not difficult to see that it is only a matter of time before the third party becomes honorable. What is more important is the attitude of the man. If a man is willing to leave the house and give up everything for another woman, then Even if the outside world thinks that the third party is dishonorable, they will look at the third party differently because of this man's righteous act. After all, asking a man to give up money means that there must be something special about this woman.

On the contrary, if a man puts all the blame on the woman after the incident, saying that he was confused for a while, then the outside world will probably lessen the blame on the man, and then they will say what the woman said Extremely despicable. So for me, it doesn't matter once I think about it. The facts are there and they will never change. Only the attitude of the parties involved changes.

Before, the only thing I wanted to know was, if the three of us met face to face, how would he evaluate his marriage to you? I wanted to hear what he said and what he had said before. The difference is, if he had told me before that the only person he ever loved was you, I don’t think there would have been so many twists and turns.

But now I am no longer interested in understanding. Putting the facts together, what he said to you, what you said to me, and what he said to me, there must be something among these three. One is fake. As for which one is fake, it will be embarrassing if it is revealed. For me, when I want results, I must get to the bottom of things. When I don’t care about the results, I can imagine people as good as possible. Now, I just want to think about the best possible place.

You always say that I have hurt you and your children. I think you cannot blame all this harm on me. I have never interfered with his attitude towards you and your children. It is simply unreasonable for you to blame me for the consequences of your quarrels and disagreements. I don’t know if he has other women, but from what you said, there should be, and there is more than one. Of course, I don’t know if I have misunderstood your words by understanding it this way. It doesn’t matter.

What I want to say is that I have not intervened in his life since I left last year. Even what is the current situation between you and him, I only know from your letter. I will not ask. I don't know anything about his life. As for him being indifferent to children, I don't know what the situation is between you.

If he is willing, you can ask him to disclose his chat history and text messages. Maybe what he said before was not convenient for you to see, but now it is completely fine. There are no private topics and what he talks about is only about money. Related to dealings. I have been away for so long, and Shen Yongqiang has clearly said that he will not divorce. Do I still have such a big influence on you?

No matter what you do in the future, it has nothing to do with me. I am already 28 years old, and I have no time to wait for things that I don’t know the outcome of. My grandma’s biggest concern is that I am too late. I'm not married, and I couldn't give her a good answer before she closed her eyes. Maybe at that moment, she suddenly figured out a lot of things.

I suddenly felt that he and I were both wrong. We are suitable to be partners at most, not suitable for marriage. He doesn’t understand what I need, or rather doesn’t care. In the past, it was always like a dream. Imagine that he is busy with his career or for other reasons. Maybe the real situation is that those things have never entered his heart, but he is just unwilling to accept this as a fact. Of course, it's not a matter of complaining now. Only when you look past it can the relationship be restored to balance, and your expectations for a person become more realistic, and only then can you get the most real results.

I think what I said is very clear. I hope that you and I will no longer need to have such conversations in the future. The past is irreversible. If there is any compensation, it can only be done by him in the future. Great effort.

I don’t even think about saying I’m sorry. If I say it, you may not think it’s sincere. Besides, who can tell me I’m sorry? Anyway, I thought about it, and there is no knot anymore. I hope that one day the relationship between you and him will be untied.

Tao Yao

To Miss Chen:

After reading her letter to you, it doesn’t seem like a lie, regardless of whether she has really left your man. , these are not important anymore. What is important is whether you got some information from this letter that is enough for you to reflect on how to manage your marriage. Don't dwell on her husband's affair with her. Otherwise, even if she leaves, the next "Zhang Yao", "Li Yao", "Wang Yao", and even more "Yao" will appear. It may seem a little late to fix the problem, but if you use it in marriage, it will be too late. It is much better than not trying to save and being unable to save!

To "Tao Yao":

If you remove all the words related to him in your letter, we can all believe in the sincerity of your feelings. Unfortunately, you just started Those few words "we are the same men" will make everyone read your letter with a kind of contempt and irony. Even though you are good at writing and smart, you have cleverly done it for yourself. The defense and refutation also taught "Ms. Chen" a vivid lesson.

All your thoughts vividly describe the darkness and weirdness of the third party today. The society has too much "forgiveness" to you, which makes you so presumptuous and allows you to trample on morality. The bottom line with the law! It’s only a matter of time before the third party becomes disgraceful, but it’s only a matter of time before the third party becomes glorious. Otherwise, why would you never dare to use a love under the sun to comfort your elderly grandmother’s slight concern? !