He has been looking for me for a long time. I sent him a message today. He didn't reply to me for two hours. I asked him why, and he said he was busy.

Hello this netizen, according to your description, I now offer the following opinions for reference only.

First, from your description, we can't see what your relationship is. If he is an ordinary friend or colleague, it is understandable for him to do so. Because, there are too many things in life that don't return or return information late.

Second, if you are boyfriend and girlfriend, and he doesn't reply to your message in time, it is necessary to analyze the reasons, but there is really no need to care who looks for who first. Because everyone has their own work, sometimes they are busy, and it is normal not to look at their mobile phones for a long time and not reply to messages in time.

Third, lovers should learn to be tolerant. Two people in love have their own situations, and they can't be exactly the same. You may have a different job, you can reply to the message immediately, but he may not be able to do it! In this case, we need to be considerate and tolerant of each other. Don't haggle over every ounce, just tolerate each other. Besides, he later sent a message asking what you were eating. In order to ease your relationship, you should stop obsessing.

Fourth, apart from mutual understanding and tolerance, people should also keep a proper distance, even male and female friends. Distance produces beauty. Stick together all the time, for a long time, you will get tired of each other because you have no freshness, and even break up noisily.