Asking for help, speaking skills, texting

1. Speak kindly and don't say anything unpleasant.

Since you are asking for help, you should have an attitude of asking for help, be as kind and humble as possible in language, let the other person have a good impression on you first, and then he can help you. On the contrary, if you speak too directly and always say something disgusting and unpleasant, then no matter how important and reasonable you want to do, the other party will often disagree.

2. Have a positive attitude and don't say anything depressed or discouraged.

Walking in the society, as long as you choose to ask for help, you must have encountered some difficulties that you can't solve yourself. At this time, there will inevitably be anxiety, pain and depression, and it is understandable to say something depressing when dealing with people around you.

However, when you face the person you ask, you must be positive, don't say anything depressed or discouraged, and don't think that doing so will make the other person sympathize with you. In fact, doing so will only create a depressing atmosphere, cause the other party's unhappiness, and even despise you. Even if you promise to help you, you will often not do your best, because you give people the impression that you are not confident.