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Passionate years | What kind of friends do I want? Such a friend gave me a stack.

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"The days when friends have been together all their lives are gone forever. In a word, a lifetime, a lifetime of love, a glass of wine. " Talking about friends reminds me of this song by Emil Wakin Chau.

Passion Years was filmed as a gift film for the 70th anniversary of the National Day. The play tells the legendary story of scientific researchers who took root in Gobi and devoted their youth in the early days of the founding of New China.

This TV series has a lot to watch, whether it is love, friendship, dedication and faith, it is worth watching by students and young people now.

This TV series tells about the research and development of nuclear weapons in the early days of the founding of the People's Republic of China. China is very poor in the field of nuclear weapons research and development, and there is no previous experience to learn from. It was completely self-exploration, but it created a miracle.

From the atomic bomb to the hydrogen bomb, it took the United States seven years and four months, the Soviet Union four years, Britain four years and seven months, France eight years, and China only two years and eight months, creating an unprecedented miracle in the history of the development of nuclear weapons.

Under the conditions of economic shortage and harsh natural environment, it is absolutely impossible to successfully develop a hydrogen bomb within eight months without the full cooperation of these scientists in scientific research.

The profound friendship established between them is even more valuable.

Qian Zhongshu said: "The formation of true friendship is not due to the intentional wooing of both sides, but accidental and unconscious.

What impressed me most about the role in this TV series was Cheng Geer, who didn't play many parts in the TV series. Because of this accident, he was demoted to an ordinary soldier. Even so, he was optimistic and fulfilled every task assigned by his superiors perfectly.

Every time he appeared, he accompanied the iconic Ma Touqin's "Red Rock", and melodious piano music blended the romantic atmosphere into a dull and tense atmosphere.

Every time he shows up, he comes to save the crisis.

His first appearance was to meet the fighting hero Tao Zhigang at Beijing Railway Station. On the platform, he and Ma Touqin played Red Rock and Other Comrades together.

At this time, a long-planned crisis broke out. Enemy agents stole important information from physics scientists who came back from the Soviet Union, and Cheng Gele and Tao Zhigang cooperated to keep important information.

The second appearance was shooting antelopes in the Gobi Desert to solve the hunger problem for scientists.

Zhong Xing and Yang stopped killing antelopes from the perspective of ecological balance. They think that Huang Yang is very precious, which destroyed the ecology after shooting the antelope. However, Tao Zhigang emphasized that the stomach should be solved first. Which is more important, life or animals?

Seeing that they were about to argue, Cheng Gele patted Tao Zhigang's leg, and then smiled and told Zhong Xin the story of the Turhutes returning to the East, saying that this antelope was a gift from God to their nation at a critical moment.

A story tells Zhong Xin that antelope will breed every year. As long as it is not hunted every day, it will not destroy the ecological balance. More importantly, it will solve hunger and save lives. Cheng Gele knows how to reason with educated people, which is beyond his educational level. To tell a story, Cheng Gele is really a master of coordinating relationships.

Chenggele was killed in the process of hunting antelope.

Cheng Gele's third appearance is the story of Tao Zhigang recalling how they protected the water source and how Cheng Gele managed to solve the water source freeze.

Cheng Gele reminds me of a friend of mine. We are colleagues, and we don't have much contact at ordinary times, but she often appears at critical moments.

I remember living in Lanzhou for two years, because the accounting certificate needs annual inspection, and the annual inspection time is not fixed. Every time I don't know what to do and who to ask for help, she will call me to help me with my annual inspection. I am very moved to think of this. Friends like this will never forget.

Some friends may be busy when they get along. Once they don't contact often, she won't think of you. Some people only think of you when they want to use you and think you are valuable.

True friendship does not need intimacy, nor does it need to be vigorous. It looks ordinary, but it smells good.

Everyone will meet many people who can be called friends in this life. And true friends, light but not greasy, get along naturally, which is a deeper relationship than the joy brought by spirit or material.

Huang Kaihua and Wang Huaiming appeared in the play with their quarrel. In Huang Kaihua's eyes, Wang Huaimin is a strange person who can only learn, but he is not suitable for life.

Huang Kaihua, Ding and Peng live in the same dormitory. I went my own way, and Peng couldn't stand it. Wang Huaiming's things occupy many places in the dormitory to make up for the experimental instruments he designed for his roommates.

When his roommate couldn't solve the problem, he did not hesitate to share his knowledge. Peng was conquered by his talent. Especially in the process of giving their lives to save Zhong Xin, they found that Wang Huaimin was actually a person who was cold outside and hot inside.

No one is a genius in dealing with interpersonal relationships. When we don't know how to get along with others, we will invest our own advantages as assets.

At that time, because China had no previous experience to learn from when developing nuclear weapons, it was divided into two types in the theoretical research stage: gun type and implosion type.

The gunman theory research and development team led by Huang Kaihua is considered to be the most promising, so its members are particularly large; And the implosion led by Wang Huaimin, because everyone felt hopeless, few people were willing to join his organization.

In the process of research and development, the theory has repeatedly proved that implosion is the development direction. At the seminar, Huang Kaihua frankly admitted that the development direction of Wang Huaimin was correct.

This is very difficult for a scientific researcher. Everyone wants to achieve something, everyone wants to be famous, and admitting that others are right is equivalent to denying that the theory they adhere to is insufficient, that is, achieving others.

Talent and moral cultivation are two different things. Newton used his position to retaliate against Hooke, and Leibniz tried to force him to create calculus. Edison also bullied Tesla, a business competitor, although they were all great.

However, it is easier for people with excellent morality to lead an entire scientific research team, and it is easier for everyone to work in one place, which is why China's research and development speed of two bombs and one satellite exceeds that of foreign countries.

It is hard for us to imagine what the whole society will look like at any time when people lose their sense of justice.

During the Cultural Revolution, in order to protect Wang Huaiming's head from being broken, Tao Zhigang was sent to the security office of the guard as a janitor. He doesn't regret protecting others from being belittled. He knows that this is temporary, everything will be fine, and he has confidence in his heart. When he was a concierge, he used his spare time to study English with Zhong Xin.

Because of his wife Jiang Ning's spy status, Huang Kaihua was downgraded to a cleaner. When he gave Peng the research he had done and the theoretical report he had written in his spare time, Peng didn't dislike him because of his special status at that time. At this time, Peng became the second-in-command of the revolutionary Committee because of his good background.

We are living in a different era from that one. The sense of justice we are asking for now is not to ask you to fight for anything, but to maintain this sense of justice, but at the same time, we must find appropriate ways to achieve justice instead of fighting blindly. It is a matter of will to meddle, and how to meddle is a technical problem.

When the old man falls, he won't walk away silently. It's none of his business You can take photos to collect evidence, ask people around you to testify, take some protective measures for the fallen people, and call 120 emergency number at the same time.

In life, when there is a dispute between neighbors, stand up and say something fair.

When a dog hurts people, don't rush to save yourself, but call 1 10 to call the police, so as to protect both the other person and yourself.

Self-protection and dealing with problems in an appropriate way are also part of justice.

After a lapse of 20 years, the four talents, hospital leaders and female scientists in the play can still get together for dinner and chat about the world, which is enviable. On the other hand, our present friendship is really as light as water. The longer time goes by, the fewer friends there are. Time is really like a sieve, filtering out many friends and relatives around us.

A few friends in the circle of friends are our real friends. Many friends in the circle of friends have never even met, and maybe even their avatars are fake.

There are some friends I know in the circle of friends, but because we haven't contacted for a long time, it has gradually faded.

From special care to cancellation of care, from chatting to infrequent contact, from individual grouping to group grouping, from praise to circle of friends, only the location change of social software records the process of friendship gradually fading.

Luo Zhenyu once said that if we don't make a new friend within three months, we will fall behind this society. But when we make new friends, how can we keep the relationship with old friends? Otherwise, after blindly trying to make new friends, you will find yourself wandering around or returning to the original point.

Dunbar once said: "You have a stable social network, with a maximum of 65,438+050 people, and the closest one is only 7 people."

Those who can become old friends already know each other very well, but sometimes they don't need to contact each other too often. They meet once a month, and the most important thing is to "share" and "share", so that they can safely give their troubles to each other without feeling bored and perfunctory. This kind of "bothering others" is the best way to maintain feelings for old friends, and it is also the best standard to test whether they can become old friends ~ Of course, even if the distance is far away, you can feel "always there", which must be a good friendship.

To maintain the relationship between old friends, it is enough to do two things:

1. When you feel that the relationship with your old friends has faded, you can take the initiative to contact TA to catch up or talk about your new life.

2. When you see anything related to your old friends, call or send a message to tell TA.