Separated 14 years, they refused to divorce for the sake of their children. Will they make up?

After reading the first issue of gold medal mediation, Ms. Xu's marriage with her was jaw-dropping and shocking!

After two years of marriage, Yu Xiansheng was addicted to alcohol, and in severe cases, he drank 15 times a month for 30 days.

Yu Xiansheng went crazy after drinking. On one occasion, after 1 1 p.m. in the evening, Yu Xiansheng filmed it, and his wife told him to go to bed quickly, but Yu Xiansheng didn't listen.

After several times of communication, I not only refused to let myself sleep, but also refused to let Ms. Xu sleep. Ms. Xu collapsed and took sleeping pills. Do you want me to sleep or take medicine?

Under normal circumstances, the husband should immediately reflect and force his wife to take sleeping pills. What kind of people do you have to force?

But what is shocking is that Yu Xiansheng still won't let his wife sleep.

Ms. Xu swallowed the medicine decisively. After lying for a few minutes, Ms. Xu felt that it was not worth it. Because of her husband, she can't end her life. What's more, there are children, so she got up and went to the hospital for gastric lavage.

Late at night, my husband called my parents-in-law. Your daughter died. Come and have a look.

Yu Xiansheng in the whole description process, the expression is indifferent, without any guilt, even don't feel wrong.

This is precisely the most terrible. A person obviously did something bad, but he didn't feel wrong at all!

Even, Yu Xiansheng explained in the program that he just took more sleeping pills than usual.

How would you rate this explanation?

Then, Yu Xiansheng said that he drove a big truck during the day and the children slept at night, so he wanted to play with them for a while. Complaining that his wife is stubborn.

Yu Xiansheng told his wife that if you were calm, there would be no contradiction, and you started the real trouble.

Seeing this, has the three views been refreshed? !

At night 1 1, go home drunk, wake up his wife and children, and force his wife to swallow sleeping pills; My wife went to the hospital for gastric lavage, called her parents-in-law and told them that her daughter was dead. In the end, I put all the responsibility on my wife. Such a man is simply terrible!

He never thought about what to do if he scared the children. What should I do if my wife can't be saved? What should I do if I scare my parents-in-law?

It seems that the word "consequence" does not exist in Mr. Wang's consciousness!

However, this is only the beginning.

Soon after, Yu Xiansheng escaped after drinking and was detained. The final result of mediation: compensation of 6.5438+0.8 million. ?

Surprisingly, the troubled Yu Xiansheng "disappeared".

Injured and disabled in hospital, Yu Xiansheng went home and didn't show up.

The wife cried, and the injured and their families went to the house to make trouble and smashed the door with crutches, but Yu Xiansheng still didn't show up.

Soon, the families of the injured came to Ms. Xu's unit, and several people with tattoos pushed Ms. Xu into the taxi.

On the other side of the home, I called Yu Xiansheng to solve the problem, but in despair, Yu Xiansheng didn't come back.

Finally, the police took Ms. Xu to the police station to make a transcript. It was her brother-in-law who took Ms. Xu home. Ms Xu said that Yu Xiansheng was at her brother-in-law's house, and her expression was very relaxed.

Then the host asked, aren't you worried about the safety of your wife and children?

Yu Xiansheng said, you can't come out at that time, because he came a dozen people. You got stuck as soon as you stepped out.

Yes, you know you are struggling, but have you ever thought about what will happen if your wife is struggling? Rabbits bite when they are in a hurry. What should people do when they are anxious?

His wife was very scared, but as a husband, Yu Xiansheng did nothing. Yu Xiansheng told everyone that I am not good at expressing myself, but I know how to do it in my heart.

I want to know, so-called know how to do it? Just hide in your hometown and leave all the mess to your wife? Has this man been to Java?

so this is it？

Don't! One year after the hit-and-run, Yu Xiansheng had an affair.

Ms. Xu saw the text message on her husband's mobile phone. I love you and miss you and so on. My husband grabbed it and deleted it.

My wife paid 10 meter, and 90% of it was that woman.

At first, my husband explained that I just turned a corner mentally and there was nothing.

Finally, Ms. Xu asked him to write an apology letter. He turned his face and said, you found it yourself, if you don't know how to stop.

Ms. Xu scolds him, and her husband scolds her when she is in a hurry. You are unlucky, and you deserve it. You have to endure it all your life.

However, the marriage came to the edge of the cliff, and Ms. Xu still did not divorce. She chose the path that many women have taken. No matter how bad the marriage was, she didn't divorce for the sake of her children!

For this reason, she would rather separate from her husband 14 years than divorce.

Ms. Xu said that if I divorce, I can't even get custody of my children. That's what I'm worried about. I put up with it. Referring to her husband, Ms. Xu said, I regard him as a dead man.

However, dear, how many years does life have? You spent 14 years apart from your husband and hated him.

Are you happy here 14 years? Are you happy? Even, do you think, are you important? ?

The child and you are two independent individuals. For the sake of children, you compromise and live a depressed life. Do children want to see such a day? Have you consulted them?

Obviously, this is putting the cart before the horse. For women, we are ourselves first, then our wives and mothers.

What's more, children are not as fragile as parents think.

At the end of the program, Yu Xiansheng realized that he had done something wrong. He also said that he wanted to make up for it over the years and worked hard. Ms. Xu's heart opened slightly. She said, try again after a while to see if she can really accept her husband.

Now that we have come to this day, I wish them happiness.

But if this happens to us, I hope that at the beginning, we can decisively choose to divorce and start a new life. After all, life is short, 14 years is long!