What if my son is gay? How to solve the problem if the son is gay?

1 first of all, we should communicate with our children carefully to find out whether they are really gay or just because they are curious about sex in adolescence and are exploring themselves. If it is the latter, parents should help and guide their children to get through this stage safely and maintain their physical and mental health.

2. If you are sure that your child is really gay, don't worry too much. First of all, homosexuality is a sexual orientation, not a disease, and it is unnecessary and impossible to "treat". Let the child know that no matter what his sexual orientation is, it will not affect the fact that he is the child of his parents. As long as he grows up to be an upright, kind and healthy person, his parents will always support him.

3, strengthen sex education for children, don't avoid this problem. Because having sex between homosexuals will not lead to pregnancy, many teenagers, especially gay men, blindly explore themselves and are unscrupulous and don't know how to protect themselves.

Parents should always understand one thing, that is, children are not parents' accessories, but independent people. And everyone has their own destiny to face. Children can't do everything according to their parents' wishes, and nothing goes well in the world. Since we brought our children into this world from the beginning, we can only try our best to be good parents and cultivate our children into good people who are physically and mentally healthy and self-reliant, thus fulfilling this responsibility. As for the rest, don't force it.