There is a kind of harm, that is, not replying. Do you like people who never reply to messages?

First of all, I want to make it clear that no matter what the relationship is with this person, if he really sends me a message, I will reply out of courtesy or out of my own upbringing. Even if someone you hate sends you a message, you just need to reply that I can't do what you ask me to do, or that I am busy now, so it will be easy in the future. Do you just want to tell that person that I hate you, so you should stop sending me messages? Everyone is proud. I think this silent way is a kind of cold violence and should be put an end to it.

There is a phenomenon that I hate. At the same time, I have also encountered this phenomenon. When you send a message to a person, this person has a good impression on him, and he doesn't return your message. In fact, his failure to reply to the news has made history very clear, that is, I don't want to contact you and I hate you. Many people will think that this is a way of communication for adults, but I think adults can handle their emotions more directly. Don't give the other person the illusion that he is busy, so he didn't reply to the message. You can just tell the other person that you're okay, so don't contact me. I think direct refusal will be more powerful and reduce trouble.

Of course, what I said above is gender relations. If you also make this kind of mistake in your work, life and study, and make this kind of low-level mistake, then you look down on people and rebel against your work, so you will be punished.

There is a saying that is quite right. There is no right or wrong in the adult world, only trade-offs and interests. When you don't reply to the other person's message, you will hurt the other person, and this kind of harm will cause a major gap in your future communication with him. You will pay a painful price for this.