My wife didn't come home all night. Why did she persuade her husband to leave it alone?

Marriage is a house, no matter how cold it is outside, there is warmth waiting for each other inside.

At the same time, this house is also a kind of bondage. No matter how unrestrained a person is outside, he should restrain his improper habits when he enters the door.

Mr. Song sent an email yesterday, telling the story of his marriage and separation with his wife.

- 1-

The marriage between Mr. Song and his wife caused a sensation in their small circle.

His wife, Ms. Wang, is recognized as a beauty in the university. She dances well and sings touching songs. Her shadow is indispensable in all kinds of external occasions in the school.

And Mr. Song, also in this university, is almost transparent.

Average grades, average looks and average talents belong to the category that few people remember after graduation.

Two people together, in a KTV.

Mr. Song is having a party with his classmates. He sat by and watched his classmates show their voices.

At that time, everyone was so high that no one noticed. He walked out of the private room by himself.

Mr. Song was silent and rested on the sofa in the lobby. It's quiet here. He can watch his mobile phone quietly.

Just then, Ms. Wang staggered to the door. Mr. Song recognized this as the beauty queen of his school.

Just as he was silently admiring the beautiful back, the beauty queen missed her footing and fell to the ground.

Mr. Song hurried over to ask about the situation.

Ms. Wang held out her hand and asked him to help. Mr. Song blushed, but he tried to help her.

Ms. Wang vomited all over Mr. Song with a red face and a smile.

Both of them are embarrassed, so go to the bathroom to clean up. But Mr. Song's clothes are useless.

Ms. Wang woke up, apologized again and again, added Mr. Song's friends, and strongly demanded compensation for his losses.

Mr. Song sent her back to the dormitory, and in this way, they met.

-2-

Feelings take root in the most unlikely places.

Ms. Wang happened to be lovelorn that day, singing alone, and Mr. Song came into her life when she was most vulnerable.

Ms. Wang seems to have a special feeling for him.

When they confirmed their love relationship, * * * appeared on campus together, which really caused a sensation.

Mr. Song felt that in those days, he was like a dream. He walked well on the ground and suddenly flew into the clouds.

Once, Ms. Wang's ex-boyfriend blocked Mr. Song in a small road while he was alone.

He warned that this girl is beyond your control, and you'd better not be too involved.

Mr. Song scoffed at his words, ignored them and left.

After graduation, the two met and went to a big city to settle down there.

Ms. Wang likes socializing, while Mr. Song likes seclusion. Although they are not in the same beat, they also leave room for each other and will not interfere too much.

Mr. Song once asked: What do you see in me?

Ms. Wang said without hesitation: you are honest, and my heart is steadfast.

A year later, the two reached the point of talking about marriage.

-3-

Both families are very open-minded, pay little attention to bride price and ostentation and extravagance, and also contribute money together to let them settle in big cities and pay a down payment for a house.

It stands to reason that this marriage should be completely happy.

Mr. Song thinks that after marriage, his wife's cheerful personality should be restrained. After all, if you have a home, you will have concerns.

Unexpectedly, she is still a week, ranging from two or three days to four or five days, and she will go home at night.

Sometimes it's overtime, sometimes it's dinner, sometimes it's welcoming new colleagues to sing, sometimes it's sending old colleagues away, or singing.

Mr. Song was not very happy and said, why do you always have you? Do you have to attend?

Unexpectedly, my wife was even more unhappy when she heard this: everything was good. How can they not go? I married you and didn't sell it to you. Leave me alone, okay?

Looking at his wife's distorted expression, Mr. Song suddenly remembered her words: You are honest, and my heart is steadfast.

Maybe my wife loves to play, but she thinks she is honest so that she can enjoy a free life after marriage?

Because of this, Mr. Song argued with her many times, but his wife still insisted on freedom.

-4-

Mr. Song suggested several times that it was time to have a baby, but his wife always refused to wait. He also thinks that Mr. Song is young and should focus on his career.

At the same time, she seems to like playing outside more and more. Mr. Song went to KTV several times to meet her who was already drunk, once in a bar.

He found it unbearable.

Marriage is not a game. Since we have decided to be together, we should consider each other's feelings and refrain from being unnecessarily sharp.

Finally, one day, in the early morning, Mr. Song still couldn't contact his wife.

He looked around anxiously, called her colleague and said he didn't know. And his wife's best friend doesn't know her contact information.

Finally, at dawn, Mr. Song, who had just parked the car, dragged his tired body and received a phone call from his wife.

She said she was drunk last night and slept at her best friend's house, so she could answer the phone and explain.

Mr. Song's tone is tired and weak. His wife said, didn't you go back all night? Why do you care?

Mr. Song said: Actually, you don't need to explain, because I didn't go home last night either.

The wife was silent for a few seconds and suddenly broke out: Where have you been? What did you do?

Mr. Song continued to say wearily: Let's talk about it at home.

In less than half an hour, the door opened, and my wife came in quickly, threw handfuls of bags on the sofa, and pointed at Mr. Song with her feet hopping. What did you do to me? Believe it or not, I am separated from you!

Mr. Song is weak: I didn't go home and looked for you all night.

My wife doesn't believe me like crazy. Mr. Song said, no, you go and see the driving recorder in the car.

The wife paused, and then went downstairs.

Ten minutes later, she came back to apologize: I'm sorry, husband, I was wrong about you, and I apologize.

Mr. Song waved his hand and said, Don't apologize. We split up.

The wife froze, tears welled up in her eyes: How can you be more cruel than me? I just didn't come home all night. Are you going to separate from me directly?

Mr. Song said: It doesn't matter. I'm just tired.

-5-

Marriage is a journey for two people. Since we are holding hands, many times, we should take the same route and see the same scenery.

If the original destination is different, even if you walk a long way at first, there will always be a fork in the road, waiting for the entanglement between the two.

Although Mr. Song and his wife are different in character, it does not affect getting along. Complementing each other can solve many marriage problems.

However, when they got married, they had different ideas in their hearts.

One feels that the goddess is in hand and has a certain sense of happiness; One thinks that since you always have to get married, the other half can be more free if you are honest.

In the end, the relationship between Mr. Song and his wife may not really break down, but if both sides are unwilling to change for the other half, there are still hidden dangers in this relationship.

Marriage is not a shackle, but it is more or less a shackle. When the edge comes out, the moment you go home, you should also converge.

The world of two people is not the world of two people; But there are two people in the world, who live together, have fun together and tide over the difficulties together. This world is called home.

Living is also a kind of mutual understanding. When you have each other in your heart and pretend to have a home, this relationship is more stable.