5 stages of love between couples

Five stages of love between couples

The first stage: the early stage of love

It takes about 3 months after the two parties feel good about each other and establish the relationship. At this time, both men and women will feel each other after seeing each other, and their heartbeats will accelerate. Men and women have begun to pay attention to their personal image, especially in terms of clothing and grooming. Both parties are very concerned about it. At this stage, the two people have feelings for each other but are not familiar with each other. They speak without saying a word. They are very polite to each other and a little shy. Holding hands can make me excited for several days, and physical contact gradually begins. This stage usually ends with mutual skillful kissing.

The second stage: the passionate love period

At this stage, the two are already very familiar and have physical contact, such as hugs and passionate kisses. At this time, the brains of both men and women will secrete a large amount of hormones, stimulating the relationship between both parties to continue to deepen. During this period, men and women are inseparable, and not seeing each other for a minute is like three autumns. Even more so, no one can separate each other. Moreover, the volume of phone calls and text messages from both parties has increased, with all kinds of sweet words.

Conservative couples will have borderline sexual relations, while open couples will have direct sexual relations. This stage usually lasts from 3 to 6 months. In the later stage of love, there will be disagreements and quarrels. Finally, this stage usually ends with a fierce quarrel or a cold war.

The third stage: the cooling-off period (also called the running-in period)

Just as autumn is bound to come after midsummer, at this time both parties have completely calmed down, and there is no curiosity and curiosity about each other. Freshness. The shortcomings of each other also began to be exposed, and the different contradictions in each other's personalities began to appear. At this time, the couple's WeChat chats have dropped sharply. Although they still care about each other, they are more mature, and the frequency of quarrels during this period will continue to increase.

At this time, both of them began to make practical plans for their future houses, jobs, etc. During this period, each other has different ideas, personality conflicts are more prominent, and each other's shortcomings are more obvious. Many couples break up at this time. This period usually lasts about half a year and ends with mutual honesty.

The fourth stage: maturity period

After the cooling-off period, if both parties can tolerate each other's shortcomings, personality is not a problem, and there is still a good impression of each other, then they will start to enter. mature period. During this period, the two of them were no longer as blindly romantic as they were during the period of passionate love. Instead, they were both very mature. They had made great progress in treating others politely and in their behavior. They began to consider each other's problems. There were occasional quarrels during this period, but they were quickly reconciled. Generally, lovers will choose to meet their parents during this period to make arrangements for marriage.

The fifth stage: Stable period

At this time, both parties have been able to accept each other's shortcomings and decided to be together forever, and they have sufficiently anticipated the difficulties in the future and are willing to face them together. During this period, the relationship between the two parties is stable, and fluctuations in time will basically have no impact. At this time, the two also had a certain tacit understanding and began to fight for their future families.

If you must have sex, this period is the most appropriate and safe time for women. Because men at this stage will have a sense of responsibility and responsibility. If there is no external interference, they will be able to give you a happy home. This period will end with the wedding of two people.