When is the best time not to contact a man if he wants to forget you?

It is always easy to have love, but how to keep it fresh is a difficult problem.

People who live together every day will inevitably bump into each other. Men always feel fresh and hurry away. After spending a long time together, they will gradually feel bored and impatient.

For women, finding the right way to keep men fresh and persistent in love is the last word.

Some women think that if you love someone, you have to stick to him every day and keep him, and don't give any space to other women, but women who think so often lose it completely in the end.

As the saying goes, "distance produces beauty", which all men and women in love should keep in mind.

Woman. Sooner or later, you will understand that you are too clingy, and frequent contact with men will only make him feel bored. Sometimes, keeping a proper distance will make men forget you.

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I met my former classmate Xiao Li some time ago, and when I just graduated, it was like a completely different person. The whole person becomes confident and full of energy.

She told me that love changed her. When I am with my boyfriend, I always think too much and am afraid of losing it, so I become very clingy and often call her boyfriend to send messages.

But at that time, the person she loved was very humble, and such love made her feel insecure. Even if her boyfriend loves her very much and never leaves her, she will still be swayed by considerations of gain and loss.

Later, after getting married, she even put all her focus on her family and husband, making herself exhausted and disliked like a big momma.

Later, I moved to another city because of my work, and I separated from my husband for a while.

Time and distance have opened the distance between her and her husband, and she has more time to do her own thing. The circle of friends is a photo of her studying and going out to play with new friends every day, but her husband is getting better and better to her.

I asked her, if you are so cold to him and don't stick to him like before, aren't you afraid that he has someone else? She said calmly and freely, "Let him worry about me instead of worrying about him because of my worry."

In fact, this is what women should do. It is the most wrong way to make a man forget you and stick to him all day. It is best not to contact him at these times, but to get unexpected results.

Don't contact him when you are busy at work. In the eyes of many women, since you love me, you should be able to reply to my messages and phone calls at any time. You have to tolerate my willfulness.

But women, get along with men, don't be unreasonable. You should also look at the problem from his point of view. He is very busy, and he has been working hard for your future. In that case, why don't you give him some space?

Love also needs life and space. Let him think that you are a reasonable and understanding person. Make him feel that you are different from other women, and he will love you more and more.

Otherwise, in the end, you will only hear his perfunctory answers such as "grace", "oh" and "ah", and you will appear to have nothing to do all day.

When he makes you angry, don't contact him to get along with men. No matter how much women love men, the bottom line and principles can't be shaken, otherwise you will become very cheap in men's hearts.

If you want a man to forget you, you must tell him clearly what you can't do or say with him.

Love is not that simple. It is obvious that he made you angry and did something wrong. If you still take the initiative to contact him, you are lowering your social status. More often, men will get tired of being so humble sooner or later.

Therefore, when a woman is angry, be cold to him and don't contact him, so that he will realize his mistake and won't make it again. This kind of you will make him love more attentively, and he will be more and more inseparable from you.

Don't contact him when you are lonely. Everyone is lonely, whether it's loneliness in the inner world or loneliness with no one around. When people are lonely, it is always easy to think too much, and it is always easy to be romantic.

Therefore, woman, when you are lonely, don't contact him actively, because loneliness will make you lose your rational judgment and misunderstand his feelings.

Not today, when a man is lonely, you should not take the initiative to send him to the door, as a pastime to relieve his loneliness. You should love yourself more. Loneliness is no big deal. Enrich your inner world, and you will no longer be lonely.

You are more attractive to men in this way, and he will not forget you in the process of getting to know you gradually.

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Many times, love, like work, needs to know how to advance and retreat and choose. If you just smash and rush blindly, you will be the last to get hurt.

You know, unilaterally exporting emotions will not only make you tired, but also backfire, making men more and more tired of your company. It's better to learn to be smart, make your love easier and make him willing.

Be a smart woman, don't be too clingy, learn to be moderate in feelings, and let him remember you for a long time, instead of thinking about him all day long.

You have to understand that men appreciate independent women more. When you manage yourself well, the more bright spots you have, the more you can attract his eyes and attention.

Your independence will make him understand that you are not a person who needs to rely on him to survive, and you shine when you are alone.

At this time, you are not only unforgettable by him, but also by more people. Doing what you like blindly and sticking to people will only make you look humble and insignificant.

Therefore, whenever a woman wants to impress a man, all you need to do is not stick to him, give him some space, and don't contact him when he is busy, lonely or angry.