How do girls talk to boys they like? How can she strike up a conversation with someone she likes without embarrassment?

I believe that many girls want to take the initiative to strike up a conversation when they meet boys they like, but they are afraid of embarrassment and shyness and don't know how to speak, so it is difficult to take the first step.

How can a girl talk to a boy she likes without embarrassment?

1, asking for directions: When you see a boy you like, pretend to ask him for directions. Asking for directions is a normal thing in itself, and boys are generally very enthusiastic about girls who take the initiative to ask for directions. Now that I have said it, I will give you courage, and naturally I will say a few more words later. You'd better ask for a closer location, maybe someone will take you there, so there are too many opportunities along the way.

2. Send a text message: the phone is turned off, saying that the phone is dead. Ask a boy to borrow his mobile phone to send a short message, and then send this short message to his mobile phone, and the number will be available. Under normal circumstances, someone may refuse to borrow a mobile phone to make a phone call. But many people can borrow a mobile phone and send a text message.

3. Keep looking: If this boy is close to you, you may be able to keep looking at him and smile at him at this time. When he looks at you too, the interweaving of eyes may make the boys over there come to you on their own initiative. Boys receive hints from girls, and if they don't like it, they usually take the initiative. Turn passivity into initiative, and win or lose with one move.

4, open the lid: take a bottle of water with you, see the boy you like, and ask him to help screw the lid. This process seems natural, after all, most boys will not refuse such a small request. After opening it, you need to say something else besides thank you, which goes without saying.

5. Ask the time: Find the boy you like and ask him what time it is. Asking the time won't have any influence on others, so few boys will refuse. The hardest thing about this kind of thing is talking. When you really dare to take the initiative to talk to him and get a good reply, you will be full of confidence in yourself in the future.

6. Keep your charm: The perfect trick for girls is to let the boys you like take the initiative to talk to you. If you want to have such an effect, you must first be attractive and make yourself attractive. When a charming girl accosts a boy, there is usually a good result. Which boy would refuse a beautiful woman's request?

7. You're a girl: As a girl, you only need to ask, and you're halfway there. That's why girls almost always succeed in hitting on people, while boys often fail. It is not shameful for a girl to talk to a boy, which is a beautiful thing. Everyone can actively pursue the person he likes, and it is not just the right of boys to actively pursue the person he likes. Besides, the chances of success of girls' active pursuit are so great, why not try? If you fail, you will be embarrassed and then laugh it off. If you succeed, you can get closer to the person you like. Do you think this is a good deal? Don't be afraid of rejection. When you don't seriously affect the interests of others at first, almost no one will refuse you because you are a girl.

How to strike up a conversation with someone you like

1, pretending to ask questions

Start chatting with each other by reading books, getting dressed and even making phone calls. It stands to reason that after starting the conversation by pretending to ask questions, the other party should be secretly pleased, and then lead to the topic and ask your contact information; It doesn't matter if the other person is a little slow. When chatting, you mentioned some exhibitions, salons or activities that you usually like to go to, suggesting that you can invite him to go next time.

2. Show weakness in front of boys

Take this unopened bottle of mineral water and let the boy you like open it for you. At this time, you have to be soft and can't open the mineral water. I hope he can open it for you. Boys will not refuse this kind of thing, but will be willing to help. Next, you can thank him for his willingness to help and continue chatting, and then you can say that you want to leave a contact information for the other party.

3. Make friends with his male friends

Girls are not as persistent as boys, so you must find people around boys first. Make his male friends, not his female friends. Because male friends are always careless and don't care too much about your thoughts, you can talk to him without scruple and ask him to introduce you to the boy you like, so that when you meet for the first time, you will gradually start to make friends and get to know each other.

4. Participate in activities together

You can take the initiative to invite him with some activities, but it feels like "going to an interesting activity together" instead of "I want to ask you out". After the trip, if he doesn't send a warm message and doesn't care, he won't invite you next time, which means he is not interested in you. Substitution! In short, the mentality behind women hitting on men is: I'm giving you a chance to chase me. If you are not active, I will replace you!

How to chat up a boy you like?

1, showing the weak side of girls.

In fact, the easiest way to chat up boys is that you can show your original weakness and ask boys for help. For example, opening a bottle of mineral water is to pretend to be very weak and hope that the other party will help. Generally speaking, boys will not refuse in this situation, and then you can naturally thank each other or talk about individual topics and leave contact information.

2. Look for similarities between * * *

There is not a saying that you can know any stranger through six people at most, so you can look for some possible similarities when you speak. For example, is it the same hometown, the same school and so on. Everything may become a topic in the same language, which can be used as an opening remark to make the following topics go smoothly and we can chat happily.

3, engaged in talking with people

At the beginning, because you can't make your intentions so obvious as soon as you come up, you must talk about some irrelevant topics first, but if you want to go further or spark love, you must talk about people from the beginning and talk about your feelings for this person. For example, what attracts you to the other person, what kind of state is in your heart, sincerely express your feelings and let the other person understand your heart.

4. Eyes

Eye contact is also a powerful weapon. If you meet a boy you like and want to know, you can stare at him first. When he feels that someone is watching him and looking back at you, avoid looking back and then look back. Then I will definitely make eye contact back and forth, pretend to be shy and smile. The signal conveyed in the play is ambiguous, and the other party will certainly understand.

Details to pay attention to when chatting up.

1. If you think the number is not good, leave your number with the other party, give the other party the right to choose whether to contact, and let the girls take the initiative.

No matter what you say or do, remember that as long as a girl wants to have a serious relationship instead of dating, what she thinks when chatting up is: Is this person good? Is it possible for this person to be together? So the task of boys is to solve these two problems as soon as possible in a short time. Excellence is multifaceted, but a short chat-up can't prove your character, so you'd better prove your study/work/ability first. For example, which school, which company, and what position. Whether you are together or not may be whether you are local, whether you are near or far, whether the age gap is big or not, and so on.

3. Don't be clever. Some answers introduced many tricks. I think it's ok to make a joke, but girls nowadays are not stupid. They are all excited to see through this. For example, a few days ago in a coffee shop, a man said he wanted to meet someone near WeChat, but his mobile phone was broken. Let me take a look at it for him. I knew he wanted to take this opportunity to visit my WeChat. So that's it. Being clever has great side effects. It's not easy to show sincerity when chatting up people. Stop playing games.