Treat the parent group as a "family group", don't blame the teacher for having objections, and send the three types of messages with caution

As a communication channel between teachers and parents, the role of parent groups is not only to convey news, but also to shape the image of parents in the minds of teachers and other parents.

My nephew, who is in sixth grade, especially likes to play with his sugar daddy. The two of them get along like old friends. Usually everyone is busy, so it is rare for the elder and the younger to see each other. This time the family While others were chatting at the party, the two of them were also whispering.

After I got home, my sugar daddy suddenly called me over, as if he wanted to discuss something important with me. He solemnly told me that his nephew had encountered a little trouble and hoped that I could help solve it.

It turns out that my sister-in-law started a micro-business business half a year ago. Seeing that all of us around her were exploited by her but there was still no sales, she turned her attention to the group of parents of her little nephew.

Dozens of classmates, that means there are hundreds of parents. How could she be willing to miss such a good opportunity? Therefore, he often releases some product news in the parent group. It is impossible for the teacher to remove his sister-in-law from the group chat, but how can he not have any objections in his heart?

As time went by, even the students knew about it. This made my nephew very embarrassed and felt isolated in the class. He mentioned it to his mother several times, but his sister-in-law never took it to heart.

When there was no parent group, it was inconvenient for teachers to communicate with parents. Problems could only be solved through phone calls and text messages. The emergence of parent groups has greatly accelerated the efficiency of home-school communication, and has also become a connecting teacher. The bond between the three main bodies of parents and students.

However, many parents do not have a clear understanding of the functions of parent groups, do not realize the special nature of parent groups, and regard parent groups as being the same as family groups.

Because the main function of the parent group is to allow teachers to easily issue orders, understand students’ situations, and facilitate communication between parents and teachers. If no matter what content is sent to the group, it will not only disturb other parents, but also affect The teacher does the work.

Some parents may say that if the teacher doesn’t like it, just point it out directly. But after all, parents have special status, and it is impossible for teachers to explain in harsh words the inappropriate actions of certain parents.

What's more, managing a group of parents is the same as managing students. As long as you relax a little after a while, someone will always make similar mistakes. With so many parents, it is impossible for teachers to give instructions one by one, so parents are needed. Have a high degree of consciousness.

So what kind of messages can be sent in parent groups that will cause dissatisfaction among teachers and boredom among other parents? In general, when sending group messages or wanting to edit three types of messages, parents must carefully choose to send them in the parent group.

But because there are so many such behaviors, everyone is actually annoyed by them. Therefore, sending such messages in parent groups is a very unpopular behavior.

2. Click on the link to bargain

Clicking on the link to help "make a cut" is a very popular promotional method. Parents often cannot stop doing it. There is no doubt in the parent group is a great place to share these types of links.

However, it should be noted that frequently sending such messages will disrupt the normal order of the parent group. The parent group should maintain the order it should have. Parents sending such links will affect the normal sending and receiving of messages by teachers and parents. .

3. Private matters of their own

Other parents may not be happy to receive messages that are of no use to them and may even constitute harassment.

If there are specific matters that need to be resolved with a parent or teacher, it is recommended to communicate in private rather than in public. This will also undermine the authority of the teacher's management and increase the teacher's workload. , causing dissatisfaction among teachers.