What should I do if my lover tells you to break up?

In fact, many couples break up because of various reasons in life, so what should you do when your lover breaks up with you? What can lovers do when they say goodbye? The first thing is to understand what it feels like for your lover to break up with you. First of all, you can communicate with your lover after he breaks up with you. After your lover tells you to break up, you may be indifferent, and then you can tell him by chatting with him that you don't want to have this relationship with him.

1, if you and your lover have remained indifferent since they broke up.

Then you can chat with him and tell him that we have no intention of breaking up. I hope you can make up in the future. Then ask him if he wants to be with her. Actually, that's not what I meant. It's just that there is not much affection between them. This situation is breaking up, and you two may not want to continue. After your lover breaks up with you, don't be angry and indifferent at this time, which will make him have a good impression on you, and then tell her through chat that you don't want to be with her, and you will contact her more actively, so that she will feel that there is some misunderstanding between you and let her have deeper feelings for you and forgive our problems. Therefore, it is necessary to communicate with your lover, so as to further your relationship.

2, so at this time, we should communicate first and then contact him.

You can't break up with your lover just because he doesn't love you, which will make him suspicious and break up. Maybe he thinks you really don't love him, or he is really unfit to live with you anymore, so he will say goodbye. Now that we know that my lover has broken up with you, let's talk to him first and tell him that he really doesn't love you, and we'll let him break up. If you want to break up with your lover, you must first understand why your lover wants to break up with you. Maybe it's because he has been doing something wrong in the process of getting along with you, which makes you feel that he is very annoying. Then he felt that being with you was a very uncomfortable and tiring thing, so he broke up with you. In this case, it is best not to use other reasons to explain. After all, you don't want to give him any reason to explain what is wrong. If he still loves you as before, you should calm down and communicate with him.

3. If in the process of communication, you feel that the other person's attitude towards this relationship is very cold, or you don't love this relationship so much.

Then you need to consider whether the other person still has deep feelings for this relationship. If the other person doesn't love this relationship so much. Then you need to make it clear to him that we are together and have not made any commitment to this relationship, but we have no plans to do it again. If the other person really doesn't love this relationship that much, we have to do something to get you two back together. So you need to take some positive actions at this time. For example, if you say love to him, you can give anything in exchange for love. This will be of great help to both of you.

Don't think about whether the other party misunderstood you before, which will make your feelings weaker and weaker.

In fact, the reason why lovers break up with men is nothing more than that your feelings are too good and strong. If so, it is very likely that your feelings have been hurt and there may be problems between you. If this is the case, never communicate directly or indirectly with men. Because in this case, a man may break up with you directly or both of them have decided to break up. Even if it's not. Don't think about whether the other party misunderstood you before, which will make the contradiction between you bigger and bigger! If problems of one kind or another are inevitable, the best solution is to solve them as soon as possible. In fact, after your lover breaks up with you, you can deal with it in some ways, such as texting or calling your lover to apologize, because both sides care about each other's emotions and feelings, and if he really has any misunderstanding about you, then he is not willing to break up with you on his own initiative.