Why do I never reply when I send messages to New Year in groups?

have you received any mass messages about New Year's greetings these days?

However, what I'm talking about is that the New Year message sent to individuals in groups does not include those in groups.

It was supposed to be a reunion with family members and relax during the Spring Festival, but many people were exhausted on New Year's Eve. Just replying to the new year message sent by others, I get cramps in my hands.

if you receive this obvious mass message, do you want to reply or not?

you said, "it's not easy, so don't go back!" "

Maybe you are also holding a posture of "no reply to all the new year messages sent in groups", but is it that simple?

if you think from the perspective of the sender of short messages, there are also reasons for sending new year messages in groups.

first, convey happiness.

Some people don't think that the New Year message must be addressed to someone. They just celebrate the arrival of the festival in such a way as to make it auspicious, make this festive atmosphere more intense, and purely express personal happiness, joy and uplifting feelings.

Sometimes, it may be that you can't help sharing the information with your friends when you see that it is very interesting (for example, it is spliced with pictures), so you can't help but send it out in the form of mass communication to make others have fun.

second, the brush has a sense of existence.

It is not excluded that some people send messages to celebrate the New Year in groups, just to take a dip and shine, just like a long-term potential underwater suddenly sticking its head out of the water, and then diving back.

This message is like saying, "Hey! Buddies and sisters, I still miss you, I am here, please find me if you have anything! " Or: "I still have your mobile phone number or WeChat. Come and have a chat when you are free! "

third, don't be special.

Some people, because of the mass-mailing atmosphere around them, just send messages to each other, with the psychology of "others do the same thing anyway, so it's right to follow them" and "I can't stay behind and don't do anything special", so they also send messages in groups to join in the fun.

As a result, some friends joked that they learned many people's real names on WeChat this Spring Festival, because the other party sent messages with their real names XXX and greetings.

Of course, a large number of Boss-level figures are not excluded from the crowd who send messages to individuals in groups, because there are too many people in charge, so I didn't send messages, for fear that my subordinates would say, "This old guy usually asks me to work, but he doesn't come to give spiritual condolences at critical times"; Sending messages, if you don't use mass mailing, you may press the phone keys to rot, so you can only "form is more important than content".

It's also quite difficult, just like at a dinner party, the people who propose a toast don't necessarily want to worship, and the people who receive the wine don't particularly want to pick it up, but in that atmosphere, they can collide with a wine show of "dancing with joy, making a lot of noise and rhetoric", just for the sake of playing games.

Finally, I benefited from the intermediary platform for sending these messages, which made me rich and happy.

But it's hard for our little friends who have accepted the mass New Year message. Anyway, at this time, I am hesitant and depressed. Hand fatigue is the second, and heart fatigue is the real entanglement.

Go back, maybe you are just a small fish under a big net, and the other party doesn't care about you. It doesn't matter whether you reply to the message or not, but your reply is your time cost (sorry, I am very serious about time ~).

don't return, for fear that some people will count who didn't return by snapping their fingers, and settle accounts after autumn. Needless to say, I've really met such a situation.

I'm sure you can also feel that sending messages in groups may be more of a festive atmosphere, but it doesn't touch the hearts of the recipients.