Are there any happy flash marriages?

Yes, my husband and I had a flash marriage, and we are living very happily now. My relatives and friends have said they envy me countless times. We have been married for almost three years and we are currently more than seven months pregnant. Our relationship is better every day than when we were passionately in love.

We had a flash marriage. We confirmed our relationship a month after we met. One night after half a month of dating, he suddenly hugged me and said he must marry me. He said I would go home and tell him tomorrow. My mother. He didn't take it too seriously at first, but the next day he said: "My mother asked you to go to my house for dinner on the weekend."

He rarely said sweet words, and even a simple "I love you" was only He only texted me when he couldn't see me when he was on a business trip. But I was particularly touched at that moment. What words can bring more security than a commitment and action like getting married? No. When I go out with him, he will always hold my hand while walking on the road. When he sees the car coming, he will hug me like a hawk guarding its chicks. When taking the escalator, you always stand behind me when you go up and block in front of me when you go down. They say I am careless and are afraid that I will fall.

Whenever I have nightmares and scream, he will reflexively hug me and pat my back. I have had leg cramps in the middle of the night a few times since I was pregnant, I said cramps! He hugged my leg and squeezed it. After pinching it seven or eight times, he hugged my leg and began to snore. Every time I asked him about it the next day, he didn't know anything. It was probably a conditioned reflex.

We rarely cook and often eat out. As long as we eat delicious food, it must be brought to my mouth: "Silly, try this." He gave it to me to eat hot pot. Put it in a bowl and wait for it to be cooked when eating barbecue. Even the butter in the bread was spread by him and handed to me. Anyway, I just keep eating.

I am careless. Sometimes I bump into people while walking, or others deliberately provoke me. As long as I am scolded by someone, he will definitely scold me back regardless of who is right or wrong. I never retaliate when scolded, thinking that arguing is meaningless, but every time I see him standing up for me, I still feel very protected.

When I was with him, I never lifted heavy objects. For example, if I put an iPad in my bag, he would find it too heavy and carry it on his back. It turned me from a self-reliant man who had repaired a washing machine and assembled a wardrobe into a weakling... He had lived with his parents for thirty years and had never done anything like sweeping the floor and washing dishes. But when we moved out to live together, he would rush to talk to us. I do housework. Especially after I became pregnant, I was scolded by him once when I hung my clothes to dry.

He likes dogs and hates cats, I am just the opposite. He asked me over and over again if he could keep a dog, but I didn't agree. Instead, he quietly brought back two cats. Now the cats are very attached to him. He takes the bath, shovels poop and petes the cats. Every morning before going out, you must kiss my face and cover me with a quilt. The last thing I do before going to bed at night is to kiss my face and say good night to my wife. I often wake up and pretend to be asleep. I know all this, I just want to feel that tenderness.

This has been our daily routine for the past three years. I am used to enjoying everything with peace of mind when he is by my side. Our married life is simple and plain, without many surprises, but we can feel love in the details all the time. Everyone who meets us can't help but say, look how good Pangpang is to his wife.