How to get the original partner to take the initiative to divorce (teach you a few tricks to get her to quit)

With the progress of society, people's living standards are getting higher and higher, their pursuit of material things is getting higher and higher, and the divorce rate is getting more and more serious. In the past, when women got married, they mostly wanted to marry a man with material ability and good family conditions. Nowadays, almost all women are financially independent and have no worries about food and clothing. Therefore, when choosing a spouse, women should not only look at the man's material ability and family conditions, but also look at other personal synthesis.

Before marriage, men were a little immature. After marriage, men gradually matured and became attractive. Why do most girls like uncles? It is precisely because of the ups and downs that my uncle experienced that he gradually became mature, calm and attractive. Many women know that the man is married but still like him and are willing to be a mistress. That's why!

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Married and mature men are more "spicy". When a man has a mistress, most of them, as wives, will angrily gang up or fight with the mistress alone, and then you will appear on the news: "I suspect that the original match beat the mistress in the street, grab her head and then kick her."

"Do you think it's glorious, you successfully defended your husband? No, you are wrong, it will only make men think you are unreasonable! Maybe, your husband will protect Xiaosan and take you directly to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce. You are confused. Why?

It takes two hands to make a ring. Even if mistress has more capital, your husband doesn't have this idea. How did they get together? You should think about what you have not done enough or gone too far. As a smart woman, if she can give her husband a chance and accept him, this marriage can still continue well. I'll teach you a few tricks to get her to quit.

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Learn to give men face.

As China people, almost all of us love face. As a man, face is a man's dignity and a good face. There is a saying called; "Beating a dog depends on the owner", which means the importance of giving "face". As smart women, you must learn to give your men enough face outside, or they will turn their faces and deny others too much.

When your husband has a mistress, many silly women will cry and scold in the streets and lanes, and then go to all relatives to complain, hoping that others will not know that this is the same. The most terrible thing is to find her husband's job or good friends to make trouble. This practice is actually destroying your man's "face". Even if you are reasonable, a man who loves you deeply will be angry.

Therefore, as a smart woman, no matter what your husband does outside, you must not make a hullabaloo about and lose face to your husband. If you shout outside, it is equivalent to telling others that your husband has done something wrong to you. You should let everyone know that it will hurt his self-esteem. Once a man's self-esteem is hurt, he will feel humiliated and don't want to be with him. So, talk about something at home with the door closed, so as not to hurt his face. If your husband has a mistress outside, you can give him enough face and praise him as a good man outside as always. I think such a good wife, men love her dearly.

It makes men feel guilty about things instead of people.

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When you know that a man has a mistress, he feels guilty. At this time, if your attitude is to retaliate against Xiao San, such as falling out with Xiao San, insulting or having a big fight, or even throwing sulfuric acid and killing him, this situation is not uncommon. These practices are all stupid women's practices. Then there is no doubt that he will expose his scheming and fierce face to him. At this time, men will only stand on the third side, not on your side.

As a smart woman, if she wants to save the other half's heart, she must first investigate and analyze the causes in marriage and control herself. You should show an open-minded attitude and let the other half feel their elegance and guilt. There are many ways to deal with mistress, but any method should be implemented on the basis of maintaining family or love. Let men see that your tolerant attitude is "not for the people", and let men feel guilty and feel that he owes you.

Loving yourself and conveying confidence will make the other person unbearable.

In life, you will always find some people who have a self-confidence and a unique style, always giving people a cool and attractive feeling and always influencing you inadvertently. I feel envious of other people's lives and feel rich and colorful.

Many people will become depressed, confused, grumpy, slovenly and so on when they experience marital misfortune. Maybe you don't need to talk. If a man feels your state, body language and the energy field around you, he will unconsciously dislike you. Maybe the man himself doesn't feel why he hates you so much, but he will have such feelings from the inside out.

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Loving yourself is a sign of self-confidence, not fooling around with a man. This is not the whole of your life, but just a part of your life! Changing the state of the previous vicious circle, although this process will be a bit painful, is the beginning of a very important process of nirvana rebirth and redemption. Begin to learn to invest in yourself, improve your emotional intelligence in love internally, improve your high value and personal charm through systematic study, and change the packaging of temperament and style externally. With some real understanding and skills of gender emotions, you will have a certain temperament from your heart, which can affect others' subconscious. It is that there are always some "different people" in life to make themselves more attractive. This kind of attraction from the inside out is the real foundation of this strong feeling.

Communicate your value through social interaction.

When you encounter a crisis in your relationship, many girls tend to show a low-key attitude, and a low-key attitude will often aggravate the other party's dislike for you. "Weak countries have no diplomacy" is the same emotionally. They are valuable to each other. As long as the other party finds that your charm is good and there are many better choices, the other party will have a sense of crisis and will pay more attention to and respect you.

It is an important way to convey your charm through your circle of friends. There must be your pursuers in social activities, so you should dress yourself up well at every party. You can even send some photos of friends circle where many people get together, including men and women, so that the other party can see your charm.

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Men sometimes make mistakes in marriage. After all, no one is a saint. What is important is what attitude we should take to face and grow us in the process of making mistakes, so that our marriage will become more harmonious and happy, and husband and wife will be more trusting and loving. This is what we should do, don't you think?