Single mothers often lose their temper with their daughters.

Xiaoya, the daughter of my classmate, is a beautiful and fashionable girl. She is polite and cheerful, but she is always angry with her mother. But once my mother was doing housework and suddenly fainted. Xiaoya sent her mother to the hospital at once. Xiaoya was frightened when she found out that her mother was seriously ill. Xiaoya can't live without her mother.

When Xiaoya was 5 years old, Xiaoya's mother divorced Xiaoya's father. Xiaoya's mother is very strong. At that time, she felt that she could bring up the children by herself. But Xiaoya's mother never considered Xiaoya's feelings from the perspective of Xiaoya. Xiaoya was also very sensible when he was young. She saw mom and dad quarreling and her mother being wronged. She knew that after mom and dad divorced, she was still happy with her mother on the surface.

In fact, the child's heart is painful. Children can't eat or cry from time to time when eating. Xiaoya's mother is a tolerant person. Whenever she asks her children if they miss their father, she will contact Xiaoya's father to take them out for dinner or play.

Xiaoya began to rebel in junior high school. Because she is a single mother, her mother is very worried about Xiaoya's poor study, and she cares and protects Xiaoya too much, which makes Xiaoya a little suffocated. Xiaoya is in a rebellious period and even more disobedient to management. She often doesn't say hello to her mother, goes out to play with her classmates and comes home late. Therefore, the two girls often have wars.

Xiaoya began to rebel against her mother and ran away from home from time to time. My mother is very worried and often goes to the Internet cafe to find Xiaoya at night. She is exhausted, but she has no choice. Xiaoya lived with his mother since he was a child and never left. Xiaoya's mother wants to scare her children away, which may make them obedient. Mother said to Xiaoya, "Since you are so disobedient, go and live with your father." Unexpectedly, Xiaoya heard this sentence and replied to his mother: "I knew you didn't want me. Go." This move not only did not scare Xiaoya, but greatly hurt Xiaoya's feelings. She felt that her father didn't want her and her mother didn't want her. So Xiaoya went to her father's house.

Xiaoya's father is an irresponsible father. He doesn't care about his children's study and daily life every day. He gave Xiaoya to Xiaoya's uncle and sister to take away. As a child, her sister never cares about her homework or study. She also took her to KTV to sing and went out for a run at 1 1 in the evening. Life is irregular.

Xiaoya's father remarried, and her aunt didn't care about her children. She only knows how to give them money, 10 5,200 100. Xiaoya has a lot of money in her hand. She is very happy and invites her classmates to KFC and McDonald's all day. Very chic. Xiaoya's academic performance plummeted. Xiaoya's mother often goes to school to learn about her children's study. Knowing this, she couldn't sit still and decided to take Xiaoya home.

Xiaoya struggled, but she didn't come back. Xiaoya said to her mother, "You don't need me anymore. Why should I go back now? Neither of you wants me anyway. I'm not going back. Nobody cares about me at my dad's place. Very good. " Xiaoya's mother had no choice but to ask our friends to be lobbyists. We watched the children grow up. The child just thinks that his mother doesn't love her and doesn't want her. Xiaoya knew how worried her mother was, how much she missed her, how much she missed so much that she couldn't sleep, and how much she stood by the window every day just to let her see her and know her love. She agreed to go home and live with her mother.

When Xiaoya came home, her mother didn't know what to do with her. She dare not be too strict with her or indulge her, or sometimes she is too strict and sometimes she can't help being too tolerant. Women just swing.

Xiaoya's mother always felt that the harm caused by divorce to her children could not be made up, and always gave Xiaoya meticulous care and even some doting. Xiaoya felt that everything her mother did to her was right.

It was not until the college entrance examination in Xiaoya that she suddenly began to study hard. Xiaoya said that she would enter the university on her own. Mother postponed all foreign affairs activities and concentrated on cooking for Xiaoya at home and taking care of Xiaoya's daily life. Xiaoya was also very competitive and finally got into the university she wanted to go to.

The years in college went smoothly. Xiaoya graduated successfully and was admitted to the graduate school. But Xiaoya always quarrels with her mother about getting along with her.

An unexpected thing changed Xiaoya. Once, Xiaoya's mother suddenly fainted while doing housework. Xiaoya rushed her mother to the hospital. After examination, her mother has adrenal adenoma, which will lead to high blood pressure. Under the condition of stable condition, it can be observed that, like Xiaoya's mother, the sudden rise of blood pressure is very dangerous, so the best treatment is surgery.

At this point, Xiaoya felt the importance of his mother, saying that he could never lose his mother. Only his mother loved him the most, and only his mother was the most tolerant. Xiaoya began to learn to take care of her mother's daily life, to do housework, and to understand her difficulties.

Understanding of the emotional life of Xiaoya's mother and daughter;

1, marriage is no joke, divorce should be cautious. Xiaoya's mother didn't do a good job in how to deal with her children after divorce. She should be strong and take good care of her children. She doesn't know how capable she is. In the process of children's growth, fatherly love is lacking, which she can't do alone. Therefore, it is suggested that people who want to divorce or prepare for divorce should first consider their children's future education and their own feelings.

2. Divorce is not Xiaoya's mother's fault. There is no need to blame yourself or feel embarrassed for the children. Maintain a normal mind, and in the process of children's education, we should also maintain a normal mind and educate children as normal children. Children are no different from other children and do not need excessive protection and strict management.

Xiaoya's mother should not test her children in the way she imagined. Children must be children. She can't understand your heart and will feel abandoned. A mother's love for her children must be unconditional. If there is a problem, we should find a way instead of threatening to replace it.

No matter what Xiaoya's father did after the divorce, he is the father of the child. It is necessary to increase the interaction and communication between children and fathers, and let children know that although their parents are separated, they still love her.

5, the child's things should be done by himself, and she should also be involved in housework. Mother shouldn't do all the work.

6. Don't discipline children violently, don't spoil them, make more friends with them, communicate with them more, understand their true feelings, understand the characteristics of adolescence, give them room to grow up and let them spend adolescence smoothly.

7. When the mother is in trouble, it is not easy for the child to know that she knows her mother.

I hope all parents can get along well with their children, be friends and communicate as friends. I hope all children will grow up in a loving and warm environment. I hope this society is harmonious and the family is harmonious.