My boyfriend and I have been together for five years, but every time we quarrel, he ignores me, doesn't answer the phone or reply to text messages, and it lasts for days. What should we do?

Living together should be tolerant of each other. If he doesn't violate your principles and you think you can compromise, then there is nothing to worry about. After all, since you know him like this, you have compromised with him every time for five years. Honestly, you asked for it. Because you compromise again and again, he knows you will always compromise in the future. If you can't stand him like this, talk to him rationally and tell him that you shouldn't compromise every time. If you really can't stand his attitude, take a rest first and see if you can't live without each other. After all, to live together all the time, even the best love will be killed by such trivial things. You can tolerate him for five years, which shows that you have a good temper and are not worried about getting married. If he is really unwilling to make some changes for you and tolerate you, this man is not worth cherishing. And sometimes when you quarrel, maybe he doesn't know what you are angry about. Usually, it is best to communicate more, directly say what you care about, and reduce the number of quarrels, so as to fundamentally solve the problem.