How to write short messages after a touching breakup?

Let me explain two common situations: First, the real breakup is that you have completely established a breakup relationship, and the other party doesn't care about you or even hates you. In this case, you should say, "Recently, I reflected on what happened between us and suddenly found that my EQ was much lower than I expected. It turns out that you gave me so many opportunities before, so now you are determined to leave me, which I totally understand. I didn't pay enough attention to you and understand you before, and you gave me a chance. Now I think you are right to leave me. " This way can reduce the contradiction between you, make the other person less wary of you, or at least have a better impression of you, which will help you get along better in the future. Be careful not to expose too much sense of demand, which will make the other party feel that you are pestering TA, and you should agree with whatever the other party says. The above is just an example of a template. The specific message should be carried out under the guidance of the tutor. Be careful not to copy the above template completely, because it will only backfire and make the other party think that you are a careless and perfunctory person. In addition, don't rely entirely on this redemption message to redeem. This message of redemption only makes the relationship between you not so bad, and it is also a temptation. No matter whether or not the other party replies, or how to reply, it shows TA's current attitude, and then better adjusts itself according to the other party's attitude. Even if the other person's reaction is not what you think, you should know that the other person has already had emotional fluctuations in his heart, which has already paved the way. If you want to save each other, you must take the process of secondary attraction step by step. You should change your image and presentation to make yourself better. This kind of recovery is effective, otherwise, even if you can make the other party transfer once by SMS, it may not be effective next time. Second, a fake breakup means that you are in conflict, but the other party is not as disgusted as you. You can still chat with each other, but if the other party breaks up with you for some reason, you can send a text message: "I have thought a lot these days, and I found that I made a lot of mistakes before. I understand how you feel, and I know I was bad to you before. You should take good care of yourself these days without me. If you can be well, it will be my sunny day. " In this case, the other party just wants you to give TA more care and concern, so that TA can feel that you care about TA. On the whole, you didn't make a big mistake. As long as you are willing to admit your mistakes, put yourself in the same position as the other party's point of view, and say something that can impress the other party, it will basically ease a lot. But be careful not to say anything pleading or angry, such as "I beg you, will you come back to me?" I really can't live without you. "This shows that your value is very low, which is quite unfavorable for your future development. You will make the other person feel that you begged me to come back, so that I can challenge your bottom line more in the future; Negative words such as "I don't want TA to forgive me, I didn't do anything wrong. ",may further aggravate the contradiction between you, it will be more and more unfavorable to recover, and even lead to your real breakup. Breaking up, involving all conTActs with ta, can't be free and talk about everything. On the contrary, you should be cautious. Because it is possible to send short messages by mistake, it will increase the difficulty of recovery, lengthen the recovery cycle and become nervous from the original relaxed state. So, how should I send the recovered SMS? I have compiled a few key points here. First, the saved SMS content is sunny, positive and interesting. First of all, you can tell me something interesting that happened recently. For example, where did you travel recently, and introduce the local customs. You can talk about the special restaurants you have been to some time ago and the food there. You can also talk about the activities you have tried: bungee jumping, diving, rock climbing, skiing … and then, you can talk about things that everyone is interested in. It can be movies, stars and sports. In short, if you like it, the atmosphere of chatting will always be pleasant. Second, there can be no arguments. When sending a message with TA, don't argue with TA. If you have different views on one aspect, try to be consistent with TA, and don't move out and break up. Because once there is an argument, the value of contradiction will rise again. All you have to do is cooperate with each other and agree with each other. Third, the recovered SMS content is "harmless" and the SMS content sent to TA is "harmless", which means that TA does not feel that you are putting pressure on TA. Among them, stress includes exposing your sense of need, forcing, pleading, commitment and other words. Only in this way will TA actively reply to your message. If all the messages you send to TA are "I can't forget you", "I miss you so much" and "I can't live without you, please give me another chance? "that TA will only stay away from you, and even feel that you are very annoyed. Therefore, the message you send to TA must be "harmless" and will not aggravate this relationship. After breaking up, most people will be very sad, as if they have lost an important part of their lives. You tried to send a lot of apology messages and tell each other all the sentences you can think of to save them, but the effect was not satisfactory. You swore, begged and even launched a gentle offensive, and the other party left without looking back. Although you only communicate by SMS, the knowledge inside is enormous. There are also many places to pay attention to. If you want to save each other successfully, you must edit every message carefully. As for love, many people say that words are the weakest in the face of love, but on the contrary, sometimes words are the most powerful factor. Perhaps a short sentence will make your long-established heart collapse instantly and make your strong appearance suddenly cry. It has no life, but it is burning with love. Especially when saving love, words are the most penetrating, such as the following rescue letter, which is almost touching and touching. Are you okay? Do you think of me occasionally? I don't think so, but I'm thinking about you. Autumn leaves are yellow again. Looking at the messy leaves in the air, I can't help but miss you, not you, but you, because even though we have been apart for so long, I still feel that you are still by my side. I know it's my fault that we broke up. I shouldn't be so headstrong. I shouldn't leave you when you need company. I shouldn't let you wash my clothes and cook for me every day. If I don't do well, I will beat you, scold you and treat you as a nanny. I thought it was love that would make you inseparable from me, but I didn't expect it to take you further. When you left me step by step because of my affectation, I was still proud of my achievements. I always habitually tell others that I can find someone better, more handsome and richer than you without you, and then I don't have to quarrel with you because of daily necessities. But in the days without you, when I was lying alone in a bed less than one meter wide, I found that the bed was so big and the days without you were so lonely. Every day after work, there is no "dear" and no one is twittering around. Do you remember? You are always used to telling cold jokes, and then you always ask me why I don't laugh. At that time, I will grin and say to you, is it funny? And then you say it's funny. If I don't laugh, I will grab my armpit and we will laugh together. Now I feel really happy. There are too many pasts between us, and every memory is like a timeline, dressing up our own stories. They are so beautiful and elegant that I recall them like cotton candy now. Maybe at this time, you will think I am very sentimental. When you love me, I don't know how to love. After you left me, I struggled in every way. But I just want to say that I was not good enough before, and I let our love take a nap; Now our love is like these leaves falling with the wind, but because of them, this autumn has become particularly beautiful. I have never longed for you to come back to me, but if you come back, I will cherish it and share life and death.