What attitudes do men have towards their ex-wives after divorce?

For a man, as long as he has sex with a woman, all he thinks about is his woman, which is why it is easy for his ex-girlfriend and ex-wife to get back together. The most terrible thing is to take care of those ex-wives who have not remarried, care for them, accompany them and help them. In the eyes of men, they are just, caring, conscientious, worthy of praise, righteous and righteous, and between men.

Therefore, when his wife accuses him of this behavior, they often put forward a point: after all, she and I used to be husband and wife. After all, she is the mother of my children. I owe her (even if I don't owe her, as long as my ex-wife doesn't remarry, it's a debt). Have a conscience. I'm not that heartless person. I didn't expect you to be so selfish and heartless. ...

Then I was angry with my second wife for this, and I felt that I supported justice.

First of all, it is your responsibility and obligation to look after the children, and no one can stop you from doing so! But why do you have to go to your ex-wife's house? Can't the children be taken out? You have a new girlfriend, which means you want to start a new life. Then you have to take care of your girlfriend's mood. Children can be taken out to accompany them, or your girlfriend can accompany them. Why do you have to go to other people's homes to make your girlfriend unhappy and your ex-wife inconvenient?

I married my ex-wife for about a year. My ex-wife and I met in college. Later, by chance, I went to the same work unit. At that time, I was mixing time and wages at work, so I began to pursue her ex-wife and chose me. At first, I felt as happy as winning the lottery.

Life after marriage suddenly becomes very boring, and everything has to be taken care of. I just want to play some games to kill time. I play games every day when I come home from work. Later, I became fascinated with playing games and played games every day after work. Later, he didn't like me playing games and turned off my computer. Once, I was having fun. As soon as she pressed the switch, I picked up the stool and hit him. My legs were a little blue, and I hid in my room and cried for a long time.

Later, because I stayed up late playing games and dozed off at work, I was fired from my unit. I lost my ambition and lived on my daughter-in-law's salary of about 5 thousand and my parents' pension. My ex-wife couldn't bear to divorce me.

Later, I heard that someone introduced her to a man who was going to get married. The man is still a cripple, ready to humiliate him and drive a luxury car (borrowed) to her wedding. As a result, I was afraid to talk when I saw the groom at the scene. That man is a street vendor selling fruit. I went to buy fruit and ate more bananas, but hit me because I gave him fifty cents less.

After reading this story, "To tell the truth, being angry means being angry, and all the reactions of the man's family are normal. From another point of view, if a boy in our family has such a situation and these things happen, our handling method will not be much better. After all, this boy is still a child, without independent personality, independent economy, independent thinking and so on. From the description, this girl is not a real adult either. If we have to restrict the girl from moral responsibility and let her give birth to a child and continue her married life, then the next life will be a chicken flying a dog to jump, and no one will be better. The girl didn't even have the courage to tell her family. Therefore, sometimes embarrassment is not necessarily a bad thing. "

As a divorced person, you should let your present know clearly that it is your duty and your responsibility to look after the children. There is no reason to care about yours now, so don't dispute with you! So in the final analysis, it is a human problem. To put it bluntly, your ex-wife will be unhappy if you go to her house, but you have to agree.