What should I do if I send a message to my ex-girlfriend and don't reply?

When I saved my ex-girlfriend, I finally got back together with her, but after several chats, I found that she didn't return my message. There is no way to successfully establish contact with her, which is definitely not conducive to reconciliation between you. What should we do now? First of all, we must understand the reasons before we can find the corresponding solutions. Let's have a look.

1, don't expose your sense of need.

What you should do is to find problems and solve them actively. Instead of revealing your own needs. You know, when you keep your girlfriend, it's the same as when you chase her. You must hide your sense of need and not show too strong a goal. Especially when she is in a bad mood, ask her to get together again. The more you push her, the farther away she is from you. In this state, you are always in a lower position in interpersonal relationships. Another reason is that in a hurry, in the process of communication, hundreds of messages were sent after disappearing for a while. When she sees the news of the bullet, she may have the impulse to delete or blacklist you, so that you have no chance to send messages in succession.

2. Don't blame each other.

You must understand that you have broken up, and even if you get to the bottom of it, you can't get the answer you want. Does it really matter? She just doesn't like you and can't stand it until she leaves. It's definitely not because she has cancer, so don't worry when you leave. It's not because the bad guys forced you to leave, or were not good for you, nor because of a series of accidents, amnesia and so on, so it's meaningless for you to ask too many questions, and most of these answers are perfunctory. It's no use accusing her of being a mess and abandoning you after you know the exact reason why she left you. It will also make you look particularly rude.

3. Don't keep talking.

Your ex-girlfriend is no longer your lover. When you tell an interesting joke, strangers have no reason to laugh with you, not to mention the relationship between you may be farther than strangers. She left your life and didn't consciously participate in your life. Of course, she has nothing to say, and there is no need to listen to your embarrassing conversation.