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How to marry a friend when he gets married

1. My friend is getting married and I want to go with the groom to pick up the bride. What are the rules?

What should the best man pay attention to? On the wedding day of the couple, there will usually be a group of groomsmen and bridesmaids composed of the brothers and best friends of the bride and groom. As the best men, they also have some things to pay attention to on the wedding day. Let’s take a look at what these precautions are...

What should the best man pay attention to

1. Don’t be nervous, relax, keep your eyes open, and smile to entertain guests.

2. Don’t be too handsome, don’t steal the limelight, focus on drinking, try to be funny, and the most important thing is don’t touch the bridesmaids.

3. Don’t bring the wrong flowers for you and the groom. Remind the couple not to forget the ring, or keep the ring for the couple.

4. Prepare the wine in advance and prepare two wine bottles, one is real and the other is fake.

5. Be careful when taking photos to avoid becoming the "third party" in the photo.

6. Don’t hesitate when you need any equipment or supplies. Find the relevant staff in time, help the newcomers convey their wishes to them, and let relevant people provide services to the newcomers. Do not make decisions without authorization.

My summary

The above are some things that I have compiled for the best man to pay attention to on the wedding day. As the best man, you must be careful and don’t make any mistakes on the wedding day. If you do the above points, you will be able to become a gentlemanly best man, and maybe you will be able to gain something of your own at the couple’s wedding. My own happiness.

2. What is the process of getting married?

Now the difficult questions are: 1.

Rent a serviced apartment: Rent a three-bedroom apartment with all the furniture, so we don’t need to buy furniture. But the things are not ours, and it feels weird to have the red word "happy" on them. . Is this good? 2. If you book a room directly at the hotel where the engagement party is held (or use the complimentary wedding room), will you pick up the bride directly at the hotel? How to arrange the things sent to relatives? After putting the bedding covers on, do you have to lift them up and take them home the next day when you check out? It feels even weirder.

Could you please give me some advice on which way to build a wedding room is better? How to handle the specific process of picking up a bride? No need to pick her up at her husband’s house? Or is it directly connected to the wedding room? Answer to the question: You don’t need to be picked up from your husband’s house, you can go directly to your new house. After settling in, just go to the hotel.

Don’t choose the second one for your wedding room, it doesn’t look good. You can use it as a honeymoon room. The wedding room provided by the hotel is not necessarily used on the wedding night.

As a rule, you will be given a period of time (such as three months, etc.) to allow the new couple to make flexible arrangements. Whenever I want two people to go out and have some romance on the weekend, I use this room.

The serviced apartment does look like a home, and it is at least passable as a new house. You can also decorate it according to your own ideas, such as putting on a bed cover or laying out a festive tablecloth.

The hotel is not good. Firstly, there is no home-style furniture for you to decorate; secondly, the space is not good. There is no place to put the things you gave to your bride. Whether it's good or not depends on your own psychological effects.

Marriage is actually a marriage for others to see. It is considered a marriage if you get a certificate yourself. So, as long as the appearance is passable.

What is the procedure for picking up a bride directly at the hotel where the wedding banquet is held on the wedding day? Naturally, the groom and the groom's friends should go to pick up the bride. It would be nice if the elders (from both sides) were waiting at the hotel.

Prepare some small red envelopes, including change of ten yuan and twenty.

3. Steps for the groom to pick up the bride

Wedding preparation timetable gt; 1. Wedding preparation plan? gt; 1.1. Decide on the wedding date, location, ceremony and wedding banquet method√ gt; 1.2. Determine the wedding budgetgt; 1.3. Draft the guest listgt; 1.4. Gather good friends to discuss the wedding plangt; 1.5. Determine the best man and bridesmaidgt; 1.6 .Determine the officiant and witnesses√gt; 1.7. Establish a wedding preparation teamgt; 1.7.1. Convene a kick-off project kick-off meetinggt; 1.7.2. Develop a wedding project plangt; 1.7.3. Clarify the division of labor of the preparation team gt; gt; 2. Preparation before the weddinggt; 2.1. Communicate with all project stakeholders of the weddinggt; 2.1.1. Communicate with parents on wedding preparation plans and progressgt; 2.1.2. Send wedding notes to relatives and friendsgt; 2.1 .3. Notify out-of-town relatives and friends by phone> 2.1.4. Publish the marriage notice online> 2.1.5. Reconfirm the host and witnesses> 2.1.6. Feed back the invitation information of relatives and friends in a timely manner> 2.1.7. For important relatives and friends Confirm again> 2.2. Procurement of wedding items> 2.2.1. New home decoration supplies> 2.2.1.1. Home appliances and furniture> 2.2.1.2. Bedding> 2.2.1.3. Colorful balloons> 2.2.1.4. Colorful Lamp (cold light) gt; 2.2.1.5. Gauzegt; 2.2.1.6. Candlesgt; 2.2.1.7. Adhesive tapegt; 2.2.1.8. Power stripgt; 2.2.1.9. Other itemsgt; 2.2.2. Wedding supplies Ordering gt; 2.2.2.1. Wedding dresses for the bride and groomgt; 2.2.2.2. Wedding ringsgt; 2.2.2.3. Bridal cosmeticsgt; 2.2.2.4. Wedding stickers, red envelopes, happy wordsgt; 2.2.2.5. Ribbons, lace flowers , Spraying thingsgt; 2.2.2.6. Tobacco, wine, and beveragesgt; 2.2.2.7. Sugar, peanuts, melon seeds, and tea leavesgt; 2.2.2.8. Video tapes and filmsgt; 2.2.2.9. Ordering flowersgt; 2.2.2.10. Book a cake gt; 2.2.2.11. Fruit gt; 2.3. Preparing the image of the bride and groom gt; 2.3.1. The bride starts skin care gt; 2.3.2. The groom cuts his hair gt; 2.4. Take wedding photos√ gt; 2.4.1. Select a wedding photo studio√gt; 2.4.2. Make an appointment for a shooting date√gt; 2.4.3. Take photos√gt; 2.4.4. Select pictures√gt; 2.4.5. Print or inkjet printing; 2.5. Decorate the new house; 2.5. 1. Ask a cleaning company to clean the new house thoroughly> 2.5.2. Decorate the new house> 2.6. Determine the wedding host√> 2.6.1. Communicate with the wedding host about the plans and ideas for the wedding day> 2.7. Make an appointment for the wedding banquet> 2.7. 1. Estimate the number of guests gt; 2.7.2. Estimate the number of banquets gt; 2.7.3. Select the wedding banquet location gt; 2.7.4. Confirm the banquet menu and price gt; 2.7.5. Confirm the acoustics of the wedding banquet site gt; 2.7. 6. Coordinate wedding banquet layout and other details with the hotel; 2.7.7. Book banquets; 2.8. Wedding makeup appointments; 2.8.1. Select makeup locations; 2.8.2. Communicate with hairstylists and makeup artists; 2.8. 3. Confirm the style of the wedding day> 2.8.4. Make an appointment for the specific time for makeup> 2.9. Make an appointment for the wedding car> 2.9.1. Determine the number of wedding cars> 2.9.2. Select the wedding car driver> 2.9.3. Make an appointment> The time and place of setting up the float; 2.9.4. Determine the wedding car dealer on the wedding day

Route and required time> 2.9.5. Make an appointment for a wedding car> 2.10. Make an appointment for wedding photography> 2.10.1. Determine the number of photographers in the photography agency> 2.10.2. Select the photographers for the wedding day> 2.10.3 . Arrange the division of labor for photography and videographygt; 2.10.4. Prepare photography equipment and film and video tapesgt; 2.10.5. Make an appointment for photography and videographygt; 2.11. Other thingsgt; 2.11.1. Exchange new banknotesgt; 2.11.2. Determine the rolling bed Children> 2.11.3. Prepare guest rooms for relatives and friends from afar 3. Prepare the day before the wedding> 3.1. Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding> 3.1.1. Communicate with parents on the completion of wedding preparations>; 3.1.2. Make final communication with the preparation team on the preparation situation and division of labor on the wedding day; 3.1.3. Make final communication with the host on the ceremony process on the wedding day based on the preparation situation; 3.1.4. Communicate again with the best man and bridesmaid; 3.1.5. Final confirmation of the relatives and friends who will help; 3.1.6. Final confirmation of the preparations for the wedding banquet, vehicles, photography, makeup and other details; 3.2. Confirm the preparation of the spokesperson on the wedding day; 3.2.1. Officiating the wedding The preparation of the speaker's speech> 3.2.2. The preparation of the parent representative's speech> 3.2.3. The preparation of the guest representative's speech> 3.2.4. The bride's preparation for asking questions during the wedding> 3.2.5. The bride and groom during the ceremony or in the bridal chamber Possible problems gt; 3.3. Final confirmation of the preparation of all items on the wedding day gt; 3.3.1. Finally try on all the dresses gt; 3.3.2. Pack all the clothes to be worn on the wedding day into pockets gt; 3.3. 3. Prepare two bottles of fake winegt; 3.3.4. Prepare fast food and dry food for the bride and groom on the wedding daygt; 3.3.5. Finally check all items and hand them over to a designated person for safekeepinggt; 3.3.5.1. The bride’s new shoesgt; 3.3. 5.2. Marriage certificategt; 3.3.5.3. Ringsgt; 3.3.5.4. Red envelopesgt; 3.3.5.5. Jewelry to be worngt; 3.3.5.6. Bridal make-up boxgt; 3.3.5.7. Sugar, cigarettes, wine, Tea and drinksgt; 3.3.5.8. Fireworks and propsgt; 3.4. Special preparations by the bride and groomgt; 3.4.1. The bride and groom are repeatedly familiar with the wedding proceduresgt; 3.4.2. Rehearsal of carrying the bride on their backsgt; 3.4.3. Rehearsal of the wedding ceremony Stage stepsgt; 3.4.4. Rehearse the act of exchanging glasses of winegt; 3.4.5. Relax and encourage each othergt; 3.4.6. Pay attention to sleep and go to bed earlygt; 3.5. Prepare an alarm clockgt; 3.5.1 Confirm that an alarm clock is working properly gt; 3.5.2 Set the alarm clock to 5:30 4. Wedding day process gt; 4.1. Makeup gt; 4.1.1. Get up at 5:30 gt; 4.1.2. 7:00 Arrive at the new south gate after the groom's hair style is done Waiting near the bride’s natal homegt; 4.1.3. 7:45 The bride’s makeup is completed, notify the groomgt; 4.1.4. Red envelopes for the makeup artist and hairdressergt; 4.2. Wedding cargt; 4.2.1. 6:30 Start putting up floatsgt ; 4.2.2. 7:00 A special car will take the groom to Xinnanmen; 4.2.3. 7:30 The float will be completed; 4.2.4. 7:45 A special car will take the bride back to her natal home in Xinnanmen (arrive before 8:30 ) gt; 4.2.5. 9:00 All wedding cars arrive at the new south gategt; 4.2.6. Drivers give red envelopesgt; 4.3. Steal the bridegt; 4.3.1. 8:00 Best man prepares flowers and red envelopesgt; 4.3.2 . 8:30 The bride returns to her natal home and hides her new shoes; 4.3.3. 8:40 The groom leads the brothers

Start robbing people; 4.3.4. 8:45 Knocking, questioning, stuffing red envelopes, and crowding the door; 4.3.5. 8:55 The groom looks for new shoes and promises to the woman’s family; 4.3.6. 9:00 Ribbon The teacher is in place and the balloons are in place> 4.3.7. 9:05 The groom carries the bride out, wearing ribbons and stepping on the balloons> 4.3.8. 9:10 The motorcade sets off> 4.4. Welcoming the bride> 4.4.1. 10:00 The motorcade arrives The groom's home in Huacheng Communitygt; 4.4.2 10:05 The groom carries the bride into the door, wearing ribbons and stepping on balloonsgt; 4.4.3 10:10 The child rolls on the bedgt; 4.4.4 10:15 The bridesmaid prepares teagt; 4.4.5 . 10:20 The bride serves tea to the groom’s parents; 4.4.6 10:40 The bride and groom depart for the hotel; 4.5. Hotel preparations; 4.5.1 10:00 Bring sugar, cigarettes, wine, tea, drinks, etc. Hotel> 4.5.2 10:10 Final inspection of banquet arrangements, sound, check-in and other details> 4.5.3 10:30 Prepare the bride and groom’s welcome cigarettes, matches and candies> 4.5.4 10:45 The ribbon master arrives at the hotel door gt; 4.6. Hotel welcome gt; 4.6.1 10:50 The bride and groom arrive at the hotel.

4. What should you pay attention to when getting married?

1. Departure

On the wedding day, the groom usually sets off from the groom's parents' home or the new house. But please note, if the wedding car requires flowers, it is best to prepare them one day in advance, otherwise time will be very tight. Remember to send a route map to each driver of the wedding car fleet. It is best to have someone on the camera car who knows the bride’s family. Before departure, the groomsmen can take photos to record the beautiful moments and estimate the auspicious time. Set off.

2. Blocking the door

Blocking the door is the most lively and lively moment for receiving a bride. When the groom arrives at the bride's house and when the bride receives her new home, the bride's bridesmaids and relatives will deliberately make things difficult for the couple, making them feel that marriage is hard-won and that they should cherish each other. In order to marry the bride, the groom must of course make his family happy, and red envelopes are also essential. Of course, blocking the door is to add to the festive and lively atmosphere of the wedding, but don’t overdo it.

3. Proposal

After finally opening the door and marrying the bride, of course you need an unforgettable proposal. At this time, the groom should hold flowers in his hands, kneel down on one knee, propose to the bride and say his vows. The actions can be done in one go, so that all the relatives and friends present can become witnesses of your love.

4. Find shoes

The groom should not think that he can marry the bride after proposing. The groom also has to go through the process of finding shoes. Before the groom arrives, the bridesmaids will hide the shoes, maybe in the closet, under the bed, or in an unexpected place. At this time, only the groom takes action. If you are not prepared in advance, then you have no choice but to give red envelopes to the bridesmaids and let them show their respect and give you guidance.

5. Serve tea

After you have proposed and put on your shoes, you can serve tea to your elders. The order of serving tea is to honor your parents first, then your grandparents.

6. Going out

When the woman goes out, due to different wedding customs in various places, she can be carried into the wedding car by her younger brother, elder brother or the groom. Remember that her feet cannot touch the ground. The bride should also be careful not to reveal herself.

7. Get in the car

The next step is for the bride and groom to get into the wedding car and head to the love house. There will definitely be photography on the wedding day, so brides who want to take beautiful photos should be careful to sit further out and make sure that half of them are outside the car, because the light inside and outside the car are completely different, and it is difficult to take photos when sitting inside. The photos will look terrible.

8. Arriving at the new house

After finally getting the bride back, the groom asked the groom to take the bride back to the new house.

When the bride returns to her bridal chamber, she puts the apple on the bedside, which means bringing peace from her parents' home to her husband's home.

9. Change of mouth tea

After arriving at the wedding room, you should sit on the wedding bed "facing north and south" and eat noodles, drink sweet soup, etc. according to local customs. During this time, the makeup artist can touch up the bride's makeup, and the groom's family prepares tea cups. The bride has to serve tea to her parents-in-law, and then to her grandparents.

5. What should be done during the wedding process?

1. The process of accepting a bride

1. Both parties get up early to prepare. The bride has breakfast, puts on makeup, and waits for the groom. Arrival

2. The bride prepares red envelopes and gives them to the groom’s relatives and friends, as well as the driver and master, etc.

3. The groom contacts the wedding car fleet and sets off with the receptionists and staff. The bride’s house

4. After arriving at the bride’s house, the groom needs to use all his tricks to win the beauty back home

5. After entering the bride’s room, the groom needs to help the bride After presenting the bouquet, the photographer and videographer can record the beautiful moment

6. The groom needs to find wedding shoes in the room where the bride is

7. The groom After finding the wedding shoes, the bride’s relatives need to carry the bride downstairs and place her in the first car of the wedding car fleet

8. At this time, the groom needs to serve tea to the bride’s parents, and the bride’s parents need to Give red envelopes to the groom

9. When the wedding car fleet arrives at the new house, relevant staff need to set off firecrackers on the road where the wedding car passes. After the wedding car reaches its destination, the groom needs to carry the bride to the wedding room

10. When the newlyweds arrive at the wedding room, the bride needs to serve tea to the groom’s parents. At this time, the groom’s parents need to give red envelopes to the bride as a courtesy

2. Precautions for receiving a bride

1. Candidates for the groom to pick up the bride

Generally speaking, the groom needs to bring his relatives, groomsmen, brothers and his friends with him when he goes to the bride’s home to pick up the bride. Specifically, it is best to have uncles and uncles as the main relatives at home, and try to avoid looking for uncles or uncles to pick up relatives. This has a bad connotation.

2. Selection of the route for getting married

When the groom picks up the bride, he must plan the route for getting married, so as to bring more happiness to his married life. Specifically, To put it simply:

① The road to pick up the bride should be as wide as possible, and avoid bumpy paths or difficult roads

② Do not turn back when picking up the bride

③ During the pick-up process, you must abide by traffic laws and do not rush through traffic lights at will

④When planning the pick-up route, try to avoid passing through crematoriums, funeral parlors and other places with strong negative atmosphere

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6. How many tricks do you have to block the door of a wedding?

Just be suitable...it's all about the atmosphere, don't pay attention to so many tricks.

If you want to remember, write a proposal letter and read it out in front of everyone before letting the groom in.

If you have too many moves, you will lose everything.

If you don’t believe me, take a look at this collection. 1. Don’t go too far when picking up the bride. A friend of mine went to pick up the bride when he got married. He and the groom’s relatives were waiting at home, but when we arrived at the bride’s house, we were not allowed in. We had to take out 5,000 yuan worth of jewelry as a doorstep to pick up the bride. I had to scrape together the money with several of our guys at the time, and it was only over 2,000. I called the groom, and he said he would pick him up first and then give it to him, or directly transfer it to the account of the woman’s relatives, but he was stunned. Agreed, it must be ready-made jewelry. This made my friend very angry. He yelled at us on the phone and refused to answer the phone. He asked all the floats to go back to the hotel. This time, he treated all his relatives and friends as a treat. A meal with friends.

We turned around and left without saying a word, but at 11 noon, the woman called to ask what was going on and why she didn’t answer the call. I thought I was going to treat my guys to a meal this time... It was 10 minutes before 12 o'clock, and the bride took a taxi to the hotel in her wedding dress... 2. Last time, a colleague went to pick up the bride, but he was not allowed to enter the bride's house. In the end, It was 11:30 and he was not allowed in. Then the groom became angry and called him: Damn, I want to marry you or not. If you don’t show up at the door of the hotel at 12:18, you will never be able to enter my door again. After the phone call, the groom left and went to the hotel. 3. Finally, I sent my daughter to the bride’s house honestly and on time. It’s okay to have a little fun, but don’t go overboard. When a friend of mine got married.

The other party blocked the door and asked him to kneel at the door and imitate the barking of a dog before letting him in. However, my friend actually barked after the negotiation failed. But she got angry when she wasn't allowed to enter the man's place after calling her, so she just went back and ended the relationship.

An hour later, the woman’s side called and asked the man’s father. He refused directly and said that he should go directly to the Civil Affairs Bureau to see him. divorce.

(The certificate was obtained before the wedding) 4. The boss of a wedding company told me! Absolutely true! It was not a very busy day that day, so the boss drove the first car and the last one also belonged to his company. The groom went upstairs to pick up the bride at around 7 o'clock, but he still didn't come down at 11 o'clock! The boss is angry! Go up and have a look.

.The bride is getting the groom! He said that he had been eyeing a large LCD TV before, but the groom didn’t buy it, so he asked him to buy it now! The groom said he would make up for it later, but the bride refused! If you don’t buy it now, you won’t get it! Finally the groom was angry! Let me ask you again: Do you want to follow me? The bride says she won’t leave! The groom turned around and said to the best man, cameraman and others: Let’s go! No one in the motorcade downstairs said a word! The boss asked him where he was going? He said he would go to a certain community. After he went there, he knelt down to a girl and asked her to marry him, saying that he would give her happiness and treat her well! After kneeling for a long time, I finally brought out a bride without a wedding dress! At this time, the groom’s face also opened up~ The boss said: I’ll take the test! Dude, do you have any substitutes? The groom said don’t please me! This is my classmate, who has always liked me, but I was blind before... It is said that the bride-to-be went to the venue to cause trouble! And the bride's family also started to make trouble.

The groom said she didn’t want to marry me! The next day, I got divorced from the original bride and needed to apply for a marriage certificate with his classmate! Awesome, right? 5 I have seen it once. Although the consequences were not so serious, the groom was also anxious at the time. He cursed a few times and turned around to leave. The bride’s family was so embarrassed that they begged for mercy. No one could bear the scene at that time. To put it bluntly, my buddy loves his wife to death. He is usually very domineering, but he is really considerate to his wife.

On the day I went to pick up the bride, I was really trying to make things difficult for me. I used all kinds of tricks, mainly because the tricks were very perverted. I spent more than 2 hours inking on them. I was so excited and hungry that we, the groom, were tortured. Ruined. It’s really hard to imagine some things without personal experience. 6. Being a best man for a buddy, tmd.

When we were getting married, a bunch of fucking old ladies pushed me to the ground and held me on my lap. When I take off my pants at night, the leather tmd on the thighs are always connected to the pants.

The swelling did not subside for a whole month.

The bridesmaid paid a girl to hire a girl, threw her on the bed, covered her with a quilt, and took off her naked body. What does my buddy say: Grass! I reached under the quilt to wipe the oil off, but my 7.8 hands were numb.

Another time it was lunch. Originally, 50 tables were reserved and 5 tables were prepared, which should be enough. However, the woman’s family and their entire family came, and more than 60 tables were prepared.

They were all from the woman’s side, and the whole family occupied a table with a gift of 100 yuan. There is another wedding party in the hotel that has no space.

It was so popular that there were 2.3 empty seats at one table. The buddy asked his wife to ask their relatives to fill 2 whole tables, mainly because we buddies haven't been together like that in several years.

When it didn’t work, my brother gritted his teeth and took us to a restaurant to get a few tables for 7. This happened to my family. My brother works in Beijing and has two apartments (one at Beijing West Railway Station and one in Tongzhou). house), I met my in-laws, and the other party proposed: "1. We will decide the wedding date; 2. My daughter's work must be arranged; 3. Buy a new house; 4. The family has debts and cannot pay it back, so we have to go back and sell the land. You guys will watch. Do it.” I won’t describe the original words, but the basic meaning is the above four points.

Our family just agreed. On the day of the wedding, the bride was picked up at her house in Tongzhou. There were more than 30 people inside (they came all the way from Hunan, and our family only has 10 people in Heilongjiang). They handed out red envelopes, but they still refused to let in; they asked my brother to sing a song loudly. , finished singing; the woman’s uncle said, there is one more thing at the end, this is their local custom, you have to give 88888.

My brother got mad. This was the most horny thing I have ever seen in my life. I also kept on burning for a long time. When I was done, I went downstairs and said directly that I didn’t want to get married. After that, it was just like that.

My brother is still single and has vowed never to marry again in his life. What a tragedy 8. When I accompanied my brother to get married, I just climbed up and down the security door. When the woman’s family saw it, they quickly opened the door.

The bride refused to go out because she couldn't find any shoes. She almost took the bed out. Some brothers had already started smashing the door frame. That scene almost scared the bride to tears.

9. I have actually encountered a similar situation. I attended a wedding once, and the bride asked for a job. The groom’s father knelt down to see this. The groom was angry, and the bride was stupid if she didn’t want to get married. Who? Even after trying to persuade her, she finally left her. It is said that the bride had not found a suitable one for several years and no one wanted her.

7. How to generally pick up a sedan chair at a wedding

Marriage is one of the most important things in a person's life. After marriage, the children in the two families will re-establish a family and give birth to a new family. The negative side of raising children and supporting both parties, and getting married also means moving from a boy to a man, and from a girl to a woman. I believe that everyone is very busy on their wedding day. In order to familiarize the newlyweds who are about to get married with the process of picking up relatives on their wedding day, I would like to introduce it to you here.

The process of picking up a bride on the wedding day

Get up early to prepare. The wedding day is very busy. The bride and groom have to get up early to prepare for the upcoming day.

Send red envelopes. In the morning, don’t forget to give out red envelopes to the relatives and friends who come to the groom’s house, and give out red envelopes, wedding candies, and wedding cigarettes to the team driver and camera crew.