Will a girl look back after a breakup? What is the probability of a woman getting back together after a breakup?

What is the probability of a woman getting back together after a breakup? The key was gone, but the lock was waiting. After a long time, the key came back, only to find that the lock could not be opened because the lock cylinder was rusty... Women are like locks, cherish them with all your heart! As long as there is still love, try your best to save it! As long as you find the key to unlock your heart, you will be able to restore success!

For many women, after a breakup, the more repulsive they are on the surface, it means the more they value you in their hearts. Therefore, sometimes a woman’s unfeeling towards you is not her true wish, but the result of a certain behavior that you stimulated her to do. Reactive. If she can fall in love with you once, she will definitely fall in love with you a second time. It is impossible for your own attraction to completely disappear. How to achieve high-quality and efficient recovery of her requires you to have a good understanding of her psychological change stage. A precise control.

Next, through today's article, the instructor will show the brothers the inner world of a woman after a breakup, let everyone understand the psychological changes that a woman will have after a breakup, and also tell you why a woman will reject you, and How can you recover efficiently!

After breaking up, you become hesitant. You want to save her, but you are afraid of failure; if you don't save her, you are afraid that the woman you love will fall into the arms of others. If brothers want to reverse this emotional pattern and retain a woman's heart, I will evaluate your recovery rate for free, help you formulate a personal recovery plan, and teach you step-by-step how to recover, so that you can successfully recover in one step!

When a woman breaks up with you, it means that she has lost confidence in you at this time, and the relationship between you cannot keep her interested in you. In such a situation, the harder you try to stay, the more ruthless response you get from her, so you choose to give up, thinking that she will never come back... But in fact, what you see on her surface is just your subjective opinion. Judgment, no one has ever noticed the reluctance and uneasiness deep in her heart. Do you want to know what goes through a woman’s mind after a breakup?

The first stage: Pretending to be relaxed

Just after a breakup, a woman will think that she can finally enjoy the happiness of being alone, and she will try her best to complain about all the bad things about her boyfriend in love. He said that he was finally freed from that relationship, and then his heart was full of expectations for the future, looking forward to the emergence of a new "Prince Charming" in his life. At this time, men's efforts to save and entangle usually end in failure. The woman will clearly say "I don't love you anymore." However, although she expresses this on a conscious level or verbally, deep down in her heart she still can't let go. Feelings for your ex.

The second stage: anxious waiting

Most women don’t like to take the initiative in love, so women at this stage will choose to wait. They hope that their boyfriend will take the initiative again. She apologizes and redeems herself, but when she waits and waits for nothing, the woman begins to feel restless. Every day seems like a year, and there is endless anxiety in her heart. This kind of anxiety will speed up her search for a new job.

The third stage: starting a new relationship

At this stage, a woman may have found her partner and started a new relationship. At this time, she is immersed in a sweet love. of women only see "the bad things about their ex-boyfriend" and "the good things about their new boyfriend"; there are also some women who have not found a new "Prince Charming" and are beginning to fear that they will never meet the right person again and that they may I can never get married, and I become restless inside.

The fourth stage: Missing the ex

Whether she is starting a new relationship, a woman who has become dull after the passion, or a woman who has not found a new "Prince Charming" will enter. this stage. The main manifestations are: thinking about every good thing about your ex-boyfriend, and thinking about the beautiful scenes when you were with him, it is like a movie in your brain. After returning to reality, I want to cry happily. I hate that I didn't cherish it when I had it, and I want to keep it when I lose it.

The fifth stage: Unable to control contact with your ex

Brothers must pay attention at this time. If you have not come out of the shadow of the previous breakup, please be cautious. When dealing with a woman who has changed your mind, don't rush to agree to get back together.

I will help you judge whether she is sincere or out of loneliness after the breakup. At the same time, I will also teach you how to understand women's psychology, allowing you to grasp women's psychological weaknesses and get back together in a flash!

90% of men want to win back a woman after breaking up with her. What makes you unforgettable is not a certain person, but what you have experienced, said and walked with that person. Road, that once wonderful time that *** experienced together. Sometimes inadvertent memories come to mind, and my heart still hurts so much that I can't touch it. You clearly know that she still loves you, but why does she reject you so cruelly when you put aside your pride as a man and beg her to come back?

① What she loves is the charming you

In the beginning, every move, word and deed you make reveals the masculine charm that attracts her; your recklessness, An impatient and careless temper will make her think that these are the characteristics of a man and she will tolerate you again and again. But as time goes by, the love period has passed, and your original shortcomings have begun to be magnified infinitely.

You become straight and irritable, and her behavior is slightly not what you want, and you start to get angry and find faults, which makes her more and more headache. If you don't pay attention to your method at this time, If you just make a fuss and pester her, she will find you even more unreasonable and annoying.

② She is afraid of repeating the same mistakes and getting hurt repeatedly

Breaking up is a double-edged sword. She refuses to accept your request for redemption because she is afraid of touching those old and painful wounds. She is afraid that after reconciliation, your relationship will return to its original state - endless quarrels and constant suspicion. At this time, a woman just wants to calm down, calm down, and calm down again! If you press harder and harder, she will be like an ostrich, burying her head in the sand, unable to escape, without the courage to face you actively.

③She doesn’t like to get along with chauvinistic men

Some men behave very chauvinistically, whether at work or in life! If you force a woman to reconcile with you after a breakup, or bother her or beg her every day, even if you feel that you have used the most humble and low-level posture to win her back, in fact, she is still in the relationship. In a passive state. This will instinctively arouse her resentment, further deteriorating your relationship, and making your recovery even more difficult!

In this situation of being repeatedly rejected, if the brothers are at a loss what to do, I will help you analyze her current psychological condition in detail, and quickly formulate an exclusive recovery plan for you to help you stabilize the current situation. situation, then work steadily to restore your relationship and win her over in one fell swoop!

It is possible that when you chase a girl, you adopt a "domineering CEO" approach and pursue her relentlessly, so you think that you can "force" her to submit when you break up and recover. This is a big mistake. What a wrong idea! If you continue to stalk you even when you have hit a wall in your own recovery, including frequent phone calls, bombarding with messages, and even going to the girls’ unit to chase and intercept you, it will only let her see your emotionality and immaturity, which will increase her feelings towards you. The feeling of boredom makes her think you are so scary!

When the other person’s negative emotions have not subsided, the more you do, the more mistakes you make. A girl’s unfeeling is a very terrible thing. At this time, you should calm down first and accept the fact of breaking up. Stabilize the girl's mood and stop the loss in time. Temporary "space withdrawal" can leave room for your feelings, and it will also keep each other's impression on the same level and prevent it from deteriorating.

When you want to get back in touch with the other person, you are very likely to be ignored by her. That is because the positive impression and survival value you left on the girl have been greatly affected by the previous breakup. Damage, so next, you need to repair your bad impression, improve your survival value, resolve the negative impact and harm you have brought to her, and let her rekindle hope in you. The instructor summarized the following two suggestions from many successful cases, for your reference only:

① Transformation of inherent impressions

Many men feel confused in this step and think that they themselves He is a very ordinary person, doing an ordinary job, and usually has nothing he likes to do. He just watches TV and brags. If playing games can be considered a hobby, then there may be another reason to break up.

What the instructor wants to say here is: you have to give the other person hope and let her see that there is a future with you, and then she will drop her guard and accept you again; you can only repair what you have left for her. Only after you turn the bad impression into a man worthy of her trust will she be willing to return to you.

②Display surface construction

Work: Girls attach great importance to the survival value of men in the relationship between the sexes, so they all like men who are motivated, so as to bring them a sense of security. .

Social: "Social certification" is a strong signal of a man's identity in the first impression, and can very efficiently generate attraction to the opposite sex. This is especially important for men whose appearance is not dominant.

Topic: This is based on her interests and hobbies. You need to find the same topic as her to pave the way for opening the chat window later.

Pre-selection: This is a technique that can only be used in the later stages of recovery. The purpose is to take advantage of the girl's jealousy to upgrade the relationship. However, the scale and time of pre-selection must be grasped well, otherwise it will have the opposite effect.

Girls all have a passion, which is to hope that men will "understand" them and create more romance in their lives, that is, to provide "emotional value."

If you know how to provide emotional value to a woman, then even if you are not that rich or talented, this woman will follow you wholeheartedly. This is because you have given her The most comfortable feeling in her heart, this feeling has nothing to do with good or bad, but what she lacks and needs most in her heart. So what exactly should be done?

For example: straightforward communication: What she wants at this time is just a conclusion or result. You can just tell her the answer directly, without any extra explanation at all. Probing communication: This kind of probing refers to the "waste test", that is, she tests you and tests you by expressing her dislike and dissatisfaction with you. At this time, you can give her an answer based on her personality and be more funny. , be serious and wait a minute, don’t talk too much, let her have the desire to continue talking to you.

How to deal with girls’ “waste test”?

① Establish topic open ropes

Don’t just talk straight away. This is a mistake that straight men easily make. When communicating, you must learn to create suspense and make people There is a desire to continue communication and understanding. For example: I dreamed about you last night. As long as the other person still has the slightest nostalgia for you, she will definitely ask you what you dreamed about her, because this is a kind of emotional importance to her, and she is valuable to someone, so she will Very curious.

②Find out the topic and talk about it

This is the same as when you were pursuing her. At that time, you had the patience to understand what girls like and are interested in. After being together for a long time, you start to ignore or even forget. At this time, you need to review your homework again, such as her favorite singers, her favorite foods, her hobbies in her free time, etc. If you have not done this homework well before, then you will have to make up for it in the recovery stage. .

③The unique characteristic of praise

In terms of emotional value, women’s biggest trait is that they like to hear sweet words and nice things. Ordinary sweet words may be more effective for younger girls. Once you are over twenty-five years old, you need to know how to use the "unique characteristic compliment technique". Use adjectives such as "most", "very" and "important" to make her feel that she is important and unique to you, for example:

"Unexpectedly, I believe it" My thoughts of more than twenty years have been changed by you!"

"You are so amazing. I didn't even notice this detail myself, but you discovered it!"

Wait! ...Similar words of praise will make a girl feel very inspired. At the same time, it can also increase her sense of identification with you and greatly increase your chances of recovery. Brothers, you can contact the teacher now, and I will conduct a comprehensive analysis of your feelings for free, and formulate the most suitable recovery strategy and follow-up operation methods for you, so that your feelings can easily break the ice and continue to heat up until reconciliation is as good as before. Sweeter than ever!

When the invitation is successful, you can choose the date at a restaurant that you have been to and liked before; if she thought you looked good in a certain dress before, she can wear this dress to the date; You can also wear things she gave you, such as belts, purses, watches, etc. These places and items can bring back good memories for you, which is the "anchor effect" in psychology.

The heart anchor is an emotional switch. If you keep stimulating her with the heart anchor, she will miss your old relationship more and more and want to come back to you again.

At the same time, you must also choose the right time to establish some new anchors. New anchor point stimuli can arouse more emotional excitement, so that your recovery will be a matter of course!

Invitation is the most important thing in recovery. If the early reunion is to let her see your changes, then the invitation is to make her fall in love with you again. If you are at a loss when facing an "invitation" at this time, I will answer all your confusions for free, teach you irresistible invitation words, and help you establish the most appropriate and effective positive anchor, so that women can't wait to see you, and then I won't leave you either!

It is said that "a woman's heart is like a needle in the sea". This is because men are used to thinking about things with a "straight man" mentality, and they do not know how to consider issues from a female's psychological perspective. When a man learns to think from others’ perspective during recovery, recovery becomes not so difficult!

The ultimate goal of redeeming love is to truly have the ability to control happiness. What kind of happiness you want, you have to put in what kind of efforts!

If you are in a relationship dilemma, don’t miss the best opportunity to recover because of temporary hesitation. Let me provide you with one-on-one consultation and guidance to formulate the most efficient and exclusive recovery plan that is most suitable for you. , comprehensively resolve the contradictions in relationships, and teach you step by step to restore your own happiness. Give yourself a chance to make love more beautiful; give your mentor a chance and let him prove to you what the power of professionalism is! Finally, I wish all the brothers who read this article can successfully win back their girlfriends and love them forever! ?