I encountered a very disgusting thing. I am very angry and aggrieved. Please help me, friends who are upright and know how to deal with the world.

What you urgently need to do now is: let him know that you are not a soft persimmon. You can have a fight with him (must be reasonable), no matter if you can't beat him or not, even if you can't beat him, as long as you have the thought of being injured a little more than him, he will understand a lot of truth. Psychologically speaking, it means not treating him as a human being. From the bottom of my heart, I don't treat him as a human being and despise him. This can be felt by others in daily life.

What you need to do in the long run is: build confidence. This is your crux. If confidence is not built up, there will be many K’s after this K. You have to remember: everyone is weak at heart, no matter how strong he looks. For him to do this shows that he is very dirty in his heart and must have very low self-esteem. There is no need for you to be afraid of him. You say you are a bit inferior, but in fact he is even more inferior. The same goes for others. You don't need to care too much about other people's opinions, let alone fear others. Everyone has their own dirty side. No one can be confident all the time, and this is the time for you to show confidence. The worst case scenario is to break up with each other, which will make you uncomfortable and others will also feel uncomfortable. No one wants to go to that point. It is precisely because others know that you are afraid of this that they provoke you unscrupulously. If you break up with a few outrageous people, you will win the respect of others. Give up a few people and you'll gain more, which is definitely a good deal. And your current performance is that of a person that no one will take seriously. Naturally, no one will use you as an important weight. I am a working person, a few years older than you. The leader of our unit (at the deputy ministerial level, with a certain level of speech) once said: People should work hard to create value that can be exploited by others. Think about it, why are some people around you so arrogant to you? Because you are of no use to him at all, he is not afraid of offending you. If you are of no use to others, then others will not respect you. If you are someone that everyone wants to fight for, someone that everyone wants to use you, or someone who can be used by you, then your status will be greatly improved. Although these words are explicit, if you think about it carefully, in fact, no relationship between people can escape this rule. You are still a student, and your thoughts cannot be fully socialized yet, but you must understand the rules of this society. Everyone is looking for someone to take advantage of, which means everyone has a fragile nature, and that's where you can build your confidence. In fact, as long as you make yourself more perfect, comprehensive and excellent, people will naturally see your value and value you. And if there are more people around you who value you, it means that you are popular, and they want to target you. The person will also think about it before doing it, because he must consider your interpersonal relationship, which no one wants to lose. Okay, having said that much, please forgive me if there are any inaccuracies.

Who dares to draw a sword? Only this great general