Who is Zhao Benshan's son?

Poverty as a child and the early death of his mother did bring hardships and sorrows to Zhao Benshan, hardships and bumps, and later experiences and struggles did bring a lot of joy and comfort to Zhao Benshan.

divorce

At that time, "I just wanted to put my hukou in the city at first, and there was no more extravagant hope." 19 years old, I didn't understand what happened at home, so I got married in a muddle. "Zhao Benshan's Wrestling Sanxian made himself famous, and when he sold Thirteen Incense, he completely sold himself to the whole country. Although there have been times in life when poor people borrow a kang to get married, the days when they have no taste or language are doomed to be divided.

But Zhao Benshan doesn't like that when you break up, everyone else hits the enemy, and he hates not being in contact with each other. Zhao Benshan thinks that marriage is a responsibility. After all, good or bad is an experience of life. Although his ex-wife has no education and never really loved her, she is kind-hearted, but psychologically unable to communicate. "The couple never talk, and they don't get along ideologically." The final result is naturally divorce.

Zhao Benshan's real duty for divorce is to give money, house and daughter to his ex-wife, and clean up the house, leaving only a jeep. The reason is that "men are easier than women and can't push people to the wall." Later, my daughter was admitted to dalian university of foreign languages, and Zhao Benshan bought a house for her mother and daughter. Although his marriage with his ex-wife broke down, his sense of responsibility as a man and father has not diminished at all. He tried his best to solve the worries of the helpless mother and daughter. marry

1988 After bidding farewell to her old life, Zhao Benshan didn't expect that she would be so lucky. He met his bosom friend Ma Lijuan, a drama school teacher. Through many times of artistic cooperation and work contact, the two have more common language and their hearts are getting closer. At 1992, the process from acquaintance to love was not short, which made them not only "chat", but also sparked a spark of love and finally came together. With the broadening of horizons, the progress of work and the flourishing of career, Zhao Benshan's understanding of life has become more and more profound.

"Family is definitely not just a place to eat, drink and sleep with children in her arms, but also a place to understand and support each other spiritually. With children, we can talk about feelings and love. " Zhao Benshan once said to a friend with deep feelings, "Li Juan taught me about love and what love is. When I was divorced, some people said that I betrayed my family and was a traitor to love. In fact, I can't be a traitor to love, because I didn't get true love before I met Li Juan. "

children

Soon, Ma Lijuan and Zhao Benshan established a new home. 1997 During the Spring Festival, when Zhao Benshan was performing a sketch on CCTV Spring Festival Evening to pay a New Year call to the national audience, his new home in Shenyang was beaming, and Ma Lijuan gave birth to a pair of "twin babies" for him. After the party, Zhao Benshan hurried home from Beijing after hearing the news. He is very happy to see two fat dolls, a man and a woman. He named the boy Niu Niu and his daughter Niu Niu. They are six years old now, and their son can send messages. Send a message to Zhao Benshan when he is free. "The son doesn't talk much, and the little girl speaks too fast, which may be spoken. Maybe the girl follows her father. "

The child didn't understand his father's behavior at first. Why do so many people ask his father to take pictures and sign autographs? Now they know how to show off. At school, their son called Zhao Benshan and said, "My classmate wants to talk to you". As soon as Zhao Benshan went, his son said to him, "I won't come back until you pick me up, just to let my classmates meet you." . My daughter has activities, and she also wants Zhao Benshan to participate. She knows how to show off. Zhao Benshan is performing in Shenyang, so he has to catch up with the stage to present flowers to his father. She also wants to give two praises, which is very attractive.

Zhao Benshan has no special requirements for children. He and his daughter-in-law have different opinions. His daughter-in-law is afraid that her children will not study well, because the social competition is too fierce now, but Zhao Benshan has a different view from her. He said to his daughter-in-law: "You told the teacher that children should not do their homework. Don't force him to be happy yet, because the pressure on the child itself is enough. "

That said, in fact, Zhao Benshan is very concerned about the children's homework. Zhao Benshan said, "I was very anxious when I went back last time, because my son told me that I got 24 points, and I said that you wanted to get 24 points? He said,' Dad, I think 24 points is good enough.' I said, what's the perfect score? If the score is 20, 24 is more than the test. He said full score 100, and I said 24 points is a little less. My son understood and took the exam again the next day. As a result, he got 90 points in the exam and made great progress. My daughter got three points in the final exam 100, and my son also sent me a message, one was 98, and the other was 100. He's actually quite clever. He just doesn't mind playing all the time. I asked him what 8 plus 4 was, and 6 came casually. Calculate 8 plus 4. Why is it missing? I said you add it up. He said that eight plus four equals 10. He will turn a blind eye to you, but he will be very careful. I don't care about my own children. I just don't want him to learn so horribly with his boss's schoolbag on his back when he was young. I want him to relax, maybe he can do it directly when he is older. If children wear small glasses like that, they all look like old gentlemen, and when they turn around, they will frighten everyone to roll their eyes. This is not good. "

Zhao Benshan is proud that children like to read his works, and some can remember and recite the words. That's a habit formed by children when they were young. Zhao Benshan was always away from home when the children were young. In order to let them know their father, mothers often play Zhao Benshan's sketches when their children are sensible.

Because we never meet. At one time, children felt that Zhao Benshan did not belong to this family. They know to call him dad, but they say "Come to our house sometime" and "Come to our house for a few days". Always talking like this, Zhao Benshan is also very sad.

So now Zhao Benshan must play with them for a while when he goes home, and play with them for ten minutes at home no matter how busy he is before going to Shenyang to perform.