How to ask your ex to pay back money?

It depends on the amount of the debt. Is it a huge amount? If it's several thousand, or more than 10,000 yuan, then you should still get it back. After all, the loss is too big. And if the money is not much, only a few hundred yuan, then you don’t need to come back.

You can send a text message. If you feel that it is a bit embarrassing to ask for money in person, it is better to send a text message to the other party, explain the cause and effect of the matter, and remind the other party. If the other party has a high level of consciousness, he will naturally not want to lose the favor to you and will take the initiative to return it.

It also depends on how the breakup happened. If the breakup is amicable, he is relatively kind. If you tell him that he has encountered difficulties in life, please borrow some money to make ends meet, and the amount will be the amount he lent you. If he is annoying and you don't want to see him again in the future, just let him be okay with you.

When you first lent money to your lover, you most likely did not write an IOU. In this case, it will be more difficult to get the money back through legal channels. Because of this, when you borrow money in the future, you must write a good IOU. I'm sorry. No one's money comes from the strong wind. You must be principled.

Asking for money is not the main issue. The main issue is that you should not do things this way and try to have as little financial involvement as possible emotionally, otherwise the relationship will turn sour. It’s hard to say that your breakup was not caused by borrowing money! The borrower will subconsciously do everything possible to make the reason for borrowing money reasonable and have a grudge against it. This is a principle, try to abide by it. Small money doesn't matter, big money is crucial.