Others are the lower half of hell.

Others are hell, others can be heaven.

What he means is that pain is an extremely strong emotion. There are two sources of human suffering: one is actual experience. For example, natural disasters, man-made disasters, injuries, old age and death, in these cases, the pain of loss and the pain of flesh and blood are inevitable, and people understand and grow in pain; The other is the internal frame of reference. Desire is unrestrained, jealousy and jealousy are born of greed, and people indulge in emotions and gradually become pessimistic, decadent and cynical. This kind of pain, in the final analysis, is to escape the responsibility of life and think that everything has shortcuts, including happiness. Everyone has his individual attributes and is also the sum total of social relations.

People gain survival, security and sense of belonging in relationships, and form corresponding emotions. Emotion is born and flows in the relationship, and at the same time it is transformed in the relationship. Sartre borrowed Garcin's words to say the famous saying "Others are hell". Others are hell, not evil, but point out that relationships are easy to breed pain. If you deteriorate your relationship with others, then you have to bear the responsibility of suffering from hell, and then others are your hell. At the same time, if you can't treat other people's judgment correctly, then other people's judgment is your hell.