We haven’t contacted each other for a while after we broke up. After I got my ex-boyfriend back, he wasn’t very enthusiastic towards me.

When two people break up and no one actively contacts the other, does it mean that the other party has really given up and will no longer love you? Daily life examples remind everyone that in the world of love, it is difficult to completely forget someone in a short period of time. Rather than saying that he has forgotten you, it is better to say that he is actually waiting for you to change or is still thinking about whether he needs to start from scratch. My ex-boyfriend was not very enthusiastic towards me after I got him back. If you still miss him after breaking up with him and want to be with him again, then you need to change the status quo again and show your new side to others to attract him again. . The Chinese Valentine's Day is coming, and this is a very good opportunity to save you.

1. Correct your own shortcomings

In relationships, it is more or less because you cannot tolerate the shortcomings of the other party or the mistakes made by the other party. Make a decision to break up. If you want to restore love after a breakup, you first need to understand your own shortcomings and change yourself for the problems. Only in this way can you have the possibility of retaining the other party.

Learn to tolerate each other. It's not that you need to tolerate anything, but don't criticize because of some trivialities and some shortcomings of the other party or some of the other party's bad habits that you know. Emotions must be tolerant, because when you are together, you must be optimistic about the advantages of others, and the advantages must have outweighed all the shortcomings, so the person you love the most is just the advantage that I like, if you now If you can no longer bear the shortcomings of the other person, it means that you will no longer love this person. To love someone, you must love everything about him, including everything about him, good and bad, perfection and childishness, etc. You must learn to tolerate each other's flaws. Real love must be tolerant to last.

It is not right to argue. While you are quarreling with others, I believe that one day, no matter what shortcomings you have in the other party when you are angry and quarreling, it will not have any effect, because the other party is also talking about your shortcomings at the moment, and you have none. It is difficult to understand the other party. After all, it is never easy for people to understand their own mistakes without losing face. In addition, blaming can only aggravate the differences between you, but will not resolve the underlying issues

< p>2. Show your happy side in WeChat Moments

In the process of retaining, how can you quickly let the other party know that you have changed before the Chinese Valentine's Day? WeChat Moments is an effective way. A good WeChat Moments will make him change his attitude towards you or even become interested in you again, while a bad WeChat Moments will also make his view of you decrease again. Therefore, learn some presentation methods for posting in Moments, and use good WeChat Moments presentation to attract his attention again.

A rich and colorful life will make him feel that you are becoming more optimistic. The display of WeChat Moments can show a rich and colorful daily life, making others feel that your quality of life is high and that you are a proactive and optimistic person. This kind of person is someone everyone likes to get along with, because he can usually bring happiness to those around him. The colorful daily life can include vacations, bungee jumping, skydiving and other sun-limited projects. It can also include reading a book in a quiet cafe or having a drink with good friends in a stylish bar. With a cup of these, there are many things you can do in life, but the most important thing is that it can provide interest to others. It would be great if it stimulates the other person.

The display of high value will make him interested in you again. The display of high value can mainly attract the other party again. To show value, you usually send some photos that can show your high value. There is a lot of information that reflects high value. A man's high value mainly depends on his viability, and a woman's value is mainly reflected in her reproductive ability. Connor, the founder of the field of love restoration, once said: "The most attractive thing about boys in ancient times was their survivability. But so far, many girls love the way boys look when they work hard." The value of boys The reflection can be based on some photos of speeches, photos of hard work at work, photos of eating in special restaurants, etc., which can all reflect the characteristics of a man's work ability, capital and taste. The high value of women showing themselves in WeChat Moments mainly reflects women’s reasonableness, affection, and homeliness.

Women can post about cooking techniques in WeChat Moments, such as making a matcha cake, cookies, or making some handicrafts today, which can reflect the characteristics of a woman's virtuous nature and home. When the value is demonstrated, all low-value circles of friends need not be posted, otherwise the result will be in vain.

Good emotions can produce a good mentality. Showing a good attitude is relatively simple, just show your good attitude. A good attitude will make people want to get along with you, because a Sun person can bring good mood to those around him. Emotional displays can also bring out your truest self. Photos of the moment when you were very happy and were taken by others, or the moment when you were making a funny face and were taken by others, can be used to express your emotions. For example, if you are very happy while playing in the water at the beach, you can take photos to express your emotions. You can also take some happy photos to express your emotions in natural environments such as taking a shower under the sun, riding a bicycle with your friends, or flying kites.

Third, find good reasons and contact testing

Contact testing is an important stage in the process of restoring love. The purpose of contact testing is to better understand the other party’s current stage. Your psychological state and attitude toward you can also be better grasped and retained through testing and contact. However, if the wrong method is used for testing and contacting at the wrong time, all the plans made in advance will be in vain and hinder retention. Therefore, the correct operation of testing and contacting is particularly important.

How to achieve detection contact? First of all, you can use some non-required reasons, preferably by sending messages, WeChat, QQ, etc. For example, you can use the reasons why you are not good at it or the other party likes it: the girl can ask the other party for professional knowledge in the fields of computers, household appliances, electronic equipment maintenance, etc. This will make the man feel that he is needed, and the topic discussion will also Unintentionally turned on. Boys can use things that the other party is good at or interested in to ask and ask for her advice. There is another method that both boys and girls can use: you can choose to send blessings to the other party during holidays and see how the other party responds. If the response is immediate and your wishes are returned, it proves that the other party is very proactive. If you don't respond at all or if you respond with a bad attitude, it means that the other party still rejects you and needs to stop testing and not put pressure on you.

Don’t reveal a sense of need when communicating with the other party. Don’t propose complex requirements immediately, and don’t mention past events, otherwise they will think that you are still the same. Nothing has changed. Therefore, the information on the topic should be positive, positive and optimistic, and convey interesting information, so that the other party will be interested in communicating with you again.

If the relationship cannot achieve good promotion, then it must be a bad promotion. If you try or test the relationship randomly, you will only increase the time limit and difficulty of retention. So it doesn't matter when good implementation is achieved, there must be no adventurous behavior. In order to promote a good test relationship, an important prerequisite is that the differences between the two parties have been reduced, and your improvements and improvements are attractive enough to show the other party a brand new happy appearance. Carry out testing contact again. This will greatly promote the progress of retention and improve the success rate of retention.

To save love, the most taboo thing is to use low-value methods such as impatient mentality and shamelessness to retain it. On the Chinese Valentine's Day, if you want to make it possible for your boyfriend to reconcile as before, you must first change yourself. After you get your ex-boyfriend back, he was not very enthusiastic about me, and show your happiest side in front of others. Brand image, there will be a new beginning.