How to write short messages when communicating with my daughter's junior high school teacher for the first time?

The first thing I want to communicate with you is: effective communication! Our parents should communicate effectively with teachers! So what is effective? It has four steps: (1) We should send our own message, that is, let the teacher know what the problem is that we come to communicate with the teacher. (2) We also need to receive information from teachers.

This is not enough, we need the third step: we also need to feed back our ideas to the teacher; Finally, reach a kind of * * * knowledge with the teacher and describe it in language! ? (This is also the first branch)

We must understand that our communication with teachers belongs to the communication between subordinates and superiors, not to raise ourselves! Because we're doing it for the kids! So pay attention to language skills, that is, show respect to the teacher in tone.

The premise of communication is: come prepared, just like we teach students, prepare lessons well, that is to say, know what to communicate with teachers, how to prepare, and what to achieve in the end! Go to the teacher like this again! Can't the teacher call and say, let the parents go, and you will go to school at once!

Let me give you an example of my child: my child once scored 48 points in the Chinese test of Grade One in senior high school, and the whole school 1200, ranking last in the Chinese subject! I remember when my son came into the room on Friday, he said to me in dismay, "Mom, I got 48 points in the Chinese exam." I felt his sadness in his tone!

At that time, my second uncle had just died, and I didn't care about my son, but I didn't forget my son! My son goes to school by a friend's car on weekends. I called Yang, his Chinese teacher, without telling him, and wanted to talk to the teacher about the child! Teacher Yang agreed! (Because I know the teacher's time is tight) Teacher Yang promised that this would be my first step!